SIL visited with her daughter and her daughter wanted to have a look at our new bedroom ( loft conversion ) I stood up to show her around and my DH told me to sit down and let his sister show her the room. It's MY bedroom, and he knows how I feel about privacy! Also, MIL lives with us and she has been known to rummage around in my bedroom ( drawers, wardrobe ) and then comment on my underwear etc. I hate it. Am I wrong to be upset?