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To be uncomfortable and mention this to teacher?

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Mumofaboy123 · 19/10/2016 19:18

I have a child in reception and one of the other children seems to have taken a liking to her which was fine although could be a little over bearing and gave her lots of hugs and kisses which she sometimes didn't like but nothing major.
He now has gravitated towards me, crying if I don't give him a hug or let him kiss me on the cheek when I drop her into class ( we are still taking them into the class to hang coat etc )
The mother is not similar to me at all and makes it quite clear she disagrees with my parenting;
From carrying her school bag for her and bringing her a snack after school to saying she is spoilt for having a bike and a scooter.
My daughter is now visibly scared of her and hides behind me when she appears, the mum has noticed and said she is rude and told her she will have the birthday present she bought her back if she's going to be so rude to her 😢
It's incredibly uncomfortable and I don't know how to handle it.
Half of me thinks the teacher can't help with it so there is not much point but on the other hand she cried coming out of school today as she saw her in the line and the teacher look confused to why she would cry leaving school but I couldn't discuss it as the other mum was behind me.
What would you all do?
I honestly don't feel in a position to address it with her as worry she would be aggressive as she's very confrontational in her general manner.

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Mumofaboy123 · 20/10/2016 22:06

Hi all and thanks for the replies
It's not that I'm being dictated to by my daughter, it's uncomfortable for me having a child I don't kmow asking for hugs and kisses whilst his mother looks on completely dissinterested.
She will no longer be telling me what to do with my child, who is happy confident and well loved and I have told the teachers as much.
I wont make a scene but i will just completely ignore her if she makes any further comments and how she handles that unfortunately is her problem.

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Mumofaboy123 · 21/10/2016 10:09

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