Dd goes to guides
Her friend wanted to come but her dad works shifts so couldn't guarantee he could take her -dd asked if I would give her a lift (not realising they meant every week) so I said fine
Dd plays rugby -same friend wants to join
I've said i'm happy to share the lifts as i'm not getting drawn in to being a taxi for her friend
Dd thinks i'm being very unreasonable as i'm going anyway and it's only a 5 minute detour
But the parents never say thanks, never offer petrol money which I would refuse but it's the principle and crucially never offer dd a lift -so if I can't take her to guides they don't go
Dad's car is on the drive 9/10 when I pick her up and always when I drop her off
AIBU?