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Do other straight women watch gay porn?

125 replies

BowieFan · 11/10/2016 19:57

When DP is on deployment and I'm feeling... well, y'know... gay porn is my go to thing to get me in the mood. I'm not sure why, but straight porn involving a man and a woman does nothing for me.

Is it the same for other women?

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cottencandy55 · 11/10/2016 23:05

I thought I was the only one I watch porn regularly and came across m/m and I absolutely love it Wink

user1475440127 · 11/10/2016 23:23

I think porn is not erotic in the slightest. I looked out of curiosity but it all about getting straight to the erogenous bits and no lead up.
Sorry not for me.
Each to their own.

BowieFan · 11/10/2016 23:27

user1475440127

You can get some that's like that, but nearly all of the ones I watch have had a bit of foreplay and lead up to the events.

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BowieFan · 11/10/2016 23:29

almondpudding

Yes, I've been watching Roanoke too. Don't really like the format but apparently in Episode 6 there's going to be a huge twist so I'm looking forward to that. I feel like the premise was used purely because the stable of actors is getting bigger and bigger and they had to find a way to use all of them.

I do think the story itself is really interesting though, even with Kathy Bates' weird accent!

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BowieFan · 11/10/2016 23:31

almondpudding

DS1 has been upset ever since Jessica Lange stopped being in them! He's disappointed by the lack of his mancrush, Matt Bomer, as well. (As am I...) Although it's probably 'cos we were spoiled by him being the main lead of Hotel.

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RazWaz · 12/10/2016 01:00

I usually watch male on male, or a company called xart who do straight porn with more of a female gaze and better looking men. It's not for everyone but I like it. I don't watch often as I prefer written works or my own imagination.

Not many women that I've talked to about porn seem to like "normal" porn as it's basically close up views of naked women making fake noises, and as a straight women that doesn't do anything for me.

metaphoricus · 12/10/2016 01:35

Watching two blokes wouldn't do anything at all for me.

ParForTheCourses · 12/10/2016 07:04

I prefer m/m or f/f foe both port and when reading fanfiction. M/f doesn't do anything for me. I'm bisexual, in a het relationship with my dh.

Back in the day when I was dating various different people, I always found that I preferred the m/m mainly when I wasn't getting much sex and f/f when I was.

ParForTheCourses · 12/10/2016 07:04

Porn*

Essexlass78 · 12/10/2016 07:08

I think I'm bi curious. I like the idea of having sex with a woman or even a threesome with another woman and my DH but never been brave enough to do anything about my fantasy.

Crispsheets · 12/10/2016 07:37

Me too Essex
And I love Jessica Lange in American Horror. Gorgeous woman. Wearing red underwear under her mother superior's habit Smile

BowieFan · 13/10/2016 12:55

Ah good old Jessica Lange!

almondpudding

Your DD will be glad to know Evan is in the latest ep of Roanoke!

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afemaletraveler · 10/06/2019 12:40

when hes away i watch lesbian porn , dont know why but i find it more gentle between women

velourvoyageur · 10/06/2019 21:08

Lesbian porn IS in 99% of cases staged for men, misogynistic etc. Don't kid yourselves the women are doing it for themselves. As a lesbian, thinking of of lesbian porn directed by men makes me queasy, but you get turned on by it. That's the difference - gay sexuality is real, not a quirk. Sorry but it's just gross that other women support this by watching it.

Traci45 · 05/07/2019 11:03

I love any sort of porn as long as the girls are sexy and the guys well hung

Diamondjem · 05/07/2019 11:16

I only ever occasionally watch porn and only ever with dh as its part of a deal(he's not allowed to watch it on his own) but we can't watch m/f as I also constantly pick flaws in supposed storyline which wreaks the atmosphere and it makes me laugh 😂 so we watch f/f, I have no desire to try it irl but I get a kick out of it and turns my dh on that I enjoy it

StoatofDisarray · 05/07/2019 11:53

When I had a libido I preferred gay porn. I also enjoyed slash fiction. Women in porn turn me off.

Ihatehashtags · 05/07/2019 14:27

No. It turns my stomach .

HomeEdRocks18 · 05/07/2019 16:52

Yup

LannieDuck · 05/07/2019 17:00

Surely it's just the same as men enjoying watching lesbian porn?

For some reason that's more mainstream than women enjoying gap porn.

Traci45 · 08/07/2019 09:18

I watched smome amazing DP over the weekend , so want to try it :)

hayley2019 · 24/11/2019 20:44

watching HET porn is perfectly normal. Any women that is straight and watching gay porn is seriously not right in the mind. Lesbian porn is fine but watching gay porn is so wrong and these women need to use their dildos more. As a single women i rather read a erotica book but would not be cheating on my partner watching other gay men. Shame on you women. Sansasescape is the clever one here.

Hellofromtheotherside2020 · 24/11/2019 20:59

WTF Hayley2019?!!!

Have you literally joined mumsnet today and commented on all the old threads containing the word "porn"?!!!

And why would a straight woman watching gay porn not be "right in the mind"?? It's no different to a man watching lesbian porn. Different strokes for different folks and all that.

Anyway please stop resurrecting the old porn threads. One was from like 2012!

jaydereilly · 29/12/2020 20:28

It's usually what I watch, though I find a lot pretty samey. If anyone has any good sites feel free to recommend some!
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Spaceprincess · 29/12/2020 21:34

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