Your 15 month marriage is well and truly over now.
So what if he has nowhere else to go; you are not responsible for him. That thought seems to be based on co-dependency as well and that is an unhealthy state.
Such men never ever go to counselling. He will not go because he feels entitled to act as he does and thinks he is doing nothing wrong here. He acts like this because he can.
Your two year old cannot afford to grow up in a household where such threats are daily present. Its no legacy to leave your child and no life for you either. This man will not stop until he has you and your child completely cowering in his presence.
Abuse is not about a lack of communication either, its about wanting and having power and control over someone else. You're always trying to co-operate with your abuser, he never co-operates.
Re a previous comment made by Cathaka15:-
"He needs to go counselling for his anger and controlling issues.
You have only been married 15 months and need to give it a chance"
No no and no again, all of this counsel is very damaging. The "sunken costs fallacy" also springs to mind with regards to this second sentence. What is being missed here is that the damage has already been done.
Counselling for abusive men never works because they do not see that they are doing anything wrong. Controlling behaviour is itself abusive behaviour and deeply ingrained within the psyche. My guess too is that he is all sweetness and light with outsiders and saves all of his anger for you and you alone. Yet another reason amongst many to now start divorce proceedings.