1. Yes 2. No 3. I don't think that it would be right for me to judge you 4. I think that it ould be right to judge you, but I don't want to risk the wrath of the rest of mumsnet 5. How can you *possibly* jusdge the other person? Just because they bitch slapped you without mercy for no reason at all and then stamped on you feet and cursed your entire family.....you don't know the whole story, they might have had an unhappy childhood.