So he has a way he expects you to ask for help? You have to be suitably meek and humble according to his standards, to ask him to do what he should be doing anyway without being asked?
You have the patience of a saint - he's lying down in bed he needs a big bucket of cold water chucked over his lazy entitled misogynist arse
41 weeks pregnant, and you are doing the cleaning alone. With 2 toddlers to care for as well so obviously there's cleaning to be done, toddlers generate mess!
Yes Id put out a call for help with cleaning, you must be shattered. Family & good mates could help, thats if it would even shame him because a man who won't help his heavily pregnant partner is plain lazy
People are awful. Why is there always a point to prove? If you want some cleaning done why the fuck can't he just help you, its not as if you are asking him to climb a mountain! You'd do the tasks together then finished, end of story. What on earth is the big deal?
Relationships are about compromise and sharing a load, not making the usual dumb misogynistic excuse "you didnt talk to me in the CORRECT tone of voice so now Im going to punish you"
I cba. Ive been through it with a man like that and got rid long ago. OH now wouldn't ever behave in that way and is good in the main but then again I don't live with him and won't ever live with a man again. He has his home how he likes it, and I have mine. I find men tiring to live with
Congrats on your impending new baby I hope all goes well and you have some good people you can call on who will be happy to help so you can have order, and a good rest when needed 