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To ask if you're British why would you spell 'Mum' as 'Mom'

217 replies

MoonStar07 · 16/09/2016 23:33

#firstworldproblem! Does my head in it's Mum! Mummy etc not Mom. Point made. Thanks

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tryhard · 17/09/2016 21:46

But I thought Mom was short for mother?

DoristheNovice · 17/09/2016 22:02

Black Country girl here and mom's the word! I have a good friend also from round ere who calls her mom Mol... I always thought it was just a family thing but apparently there's a few people dotted around the area who also use the word Mol (not short for Molly or any other name). Bizarre. I always cringe a little when I hear the word mum but can't really explain why Confused

SlightlyperturbedOwl · 17/09/2016 22:33

tryhard that's exactly what DH told me Smile

SapphireSeptember · 17/09/2016 22:37

I know an American lady who spells it 'mum' because she thinks it sounds posh. Grin She's wonderful!

BettyCrystal · 17/09/2016 22:42

tryhard, yes. Mom = short for Mother.

LetsJunglyJumpToIt · 17/09/2016 22:44

It's not a Midlands thing, it's a Birmingham thing. I've lived in Herefordshire and they don't say Mom.

Woodacorn · 17/09/2016 22:47

Moonstar why would you spell Mom as Mum? Everyone where I live in the middle of BRITAIN spells/says Mom. You must be some type of intolerant person to dislike regional variations.

OvariesBeforeBrovaries · 18/09/2016 00:06

It's not a Midlands thing, it's a Birmingham thing.

Not just Birmingham. Black Country too.

DoristheNovice · 18/09/2016 00:11

Well pointed out Ovaries! Us Black Country folk are not Brummies Grin

PickAChew · 18/09/2016 00:12

Because, as I'm sure you're aware, by now, you're from the black country.

CocktailQueen · 18/09/2016 00:15

It is not a NE of Scotland thing! Nobody refers to their mom in the NE...

HeyRobot · 18/09/2016 00:28

Even if it is the influence of American culture, what's the problem? There aren't many parts of the world that hasn't been changed because of British influence.

squiggleirl · 18/09/2016 00:50

I'm Irish. 'Mom' is used loads here. It's not an americanisation. In some areas it's the English spelling of the Irish pronunciation of the word 'Mam'.

'Mam' is a word in Irish. Depending on the area you're from it is pronounced as either Mam' or 'Mom'.

In my house my mother was called either 'Mam' or 'Mom'. I'm not a 'Mummy'.

LucyBabs
Although I've nevet met an Irish person who says Pants for trousers

Hello! Smile I say pants, as do loads of people I know.

Writerwannabe83 · 18/09/2016 07:29

My mom was raised in Birmingham until she was 7 so always used that word and so me and my sister grew up hearing it and so we call our mother 'mom' too.

None of us live in Birmingham but the entire family use the word 'mom'.

My aunties daughter calls her mom.

My sisters two children call her mom.

My DS is 2.5 snd refers to me as mommy.

It's just what is normal in my family and to say mum just feels so wrong and strange.

I'm not too sure why anyway would get particularly wound up about it to be honest.... Grin

MoonStar07 · 18/09/2016 09:28

Insightful :) it was a question! I didn't know of the birmingham thing.

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Toofat2BtheFly · 18/09/2016 09:43

Wolverhampton girl here ,

I'm a mom or a mommy , said and spelt just like that .

Its just the way it is ...its not done to piss anyone else off , until I joined mumsnet I didn't know it was such a big issue .

The black country has some fabulous words that the rest of the country don't use , we enjoy them !

LucyBabs · 18/09/2016 19:49

Oh I now know one Irish person who says Pants for Trousers Hi squiggle Grin

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