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To ask if you're British why would you spell 'Mum' as 'Mom'

217 replies

MoonStar07 · 16/09/2016 23:33

#firstworldproblem! Does my head in it's Mum! Mummy etc not Mom. Point made. Thanks

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MoonStar07 · 17/09/2016 11:11

Wouldn't say I've made a tit of myself lol. People are harsh. I've seen it as an education. I read further back there is an annual 'mom' and 'mum' thread. I'm pleased to have reignited the discussion :)

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GreatFuckability · 17/09/2016 11:11

dailyarsewipe im the opposite, i don't answer to Mum. I'm Mami or Mam. I physically wince at being called mummy.

FruitCider · 17/09/2016 11:14

You'll spell it mom if your from the Midlands. Regional variation and all that.

Ummm in nottingham/derby/Leicester we certainly do not use " mom"

Muskey · 17/09/2016 11:14

I am from Wales with an irish mother(I think I qualify as British) I call my mother mammy.

SnugglySnerd · 17/09/2016 11:15

If mom/mommy really is a Birmingham thing then why don't we call ourselves "Brommies"?!

Caipora · 17/09/2016 11:20

All this thread needs is a few hundred more replies about how it's said/spelt like that in the midlands/isn't said/spelt like that in the midlands, it's mom, mam, mum...fecking in dad in Liverpool, how they grew up in Yorkshire and it was said mum on the odd side of the road and mom on the even side and ......
m.youtube.com/watch?v=YUVs7vXNZiw

NotTheMrMenAgain · 17/09/2016 11:27

Snuggly - in the 'old days' it was common for working class Brummies to refer to Birmingham as Brummigem. If you were going to your local shops/high street then you were 'going up the village'. If you were going into town then you were 'going up Brummigem, so I assume Brum is a shortened version of Brummigem. My DGF spoke like this, but you done hear it much these days.

I think it comes from when the outlying towns around the city centre actually were villages - before the railways turned them into commuter towns in the Edwardian/Victorian times. My town still has a bit of village green left and a handful of old Farm labourers cottages, but nothing else village-like left.

So, it's Brum, not Brom. Brom would sound like West Brom and be confusing.

MaddyHatter · 17/09/2016 11:29

i'm a brummy in Shropshire, my mom is Mom, my DH's is Mam and my my kids call me a mix of mum/mom.

its entirely regional.

MaddyHatter · 17/09/2016 11:33

sorry, should have said DH is welsh (south wales), he uses Mam

MaddyHatter · 17/09/2016 11:34

but just to add to the pot, my Grandmother (or Nanny, lol) was from Yorkshire and always used Mom to refer to her mother too!

whywonthedgehogssharethehedge · 17/09/2016 11:37

Regional variation. Mam and mom are both used in the uk.

whywonthedgehogssharethehedge · 17/09/2016 11:37

Regional variation. Mam and mom are both used in the uk.

grannytomine · 17/09/2016 12:14

Another Brummie here who has always had a mom and is a mom. I always cringe when an adult says mummy as it sounds so odd to me. My sons call me ma and I have no idea why, it isn't used locally or anywhere else in the family. Makes me feel like an East End matriarch.

SnugglySnerd · 17/09/2016 12:56

I know, Not, I was just being silly! Grin

gleam · 17/09/2016 13:34

Not - that's interesting. My mom used to call it Brummigem too.

ayeokthen · 17/09/2016 13:36

I think it's a regional thing, Midlands would be Mom, north of England Mam, Scotland/Ireland Mam/Mammy/Maw.

Beardsareweird · 17/09/2016 13:38

I'm a Brummie and would never call my mom 'mum'.

SquinkiesRule · 17/09/2016 15:00

Welsh here, but my Mom is from Birmingham, so it rubbed off on me and I call her Mom. My kids were all born and raised in the US so call me Mom too.

RaspberryOverload · 17/09/2016 15:03

SENPARENT Sat 17-Sep-16 00:20:55

It's mom in the Midlands.
Not in the East Midlands. I don't know anyone who says "Mom"

Another East Midlander. Mum or sometimes Mam, but not Mom.

Mom is West Midlands/Birmingham/Black country, I've never heard Mom from a native East Midlander.

SenecaFalls · 17/09/2016 15:11

Surely people don't spell 'mum' as 'mom'?

In parts of New England, they say "mum," but write "mom."

CodyKing · 17/09/2016 16:40

DS also had his homework corrected as Mum not Mom

Never corrected any bodies else's name!!'

zwellers · 17/09/2016 16:58

Another West midlandser who uses mom (pronounced to rhyme with bomb). Now can we start a campaign to get shops stocking mom cards as it nearly impossible for me to find them at Christmas etc. A mummy is a thing wrapped in bandages!

TheWickerWoman · 17/09/2016 16:59

In a Brummie and it's Mum in our family. Can't stand Mom.

TheWickerWoman · 17/09/2016 17:00

I'm

Sorry. Typo

RB68 · 17/09/2016 17:01

Mom slips over to parts of Warwickshire as well, although that might be stray Brummies :-)