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To ask what's the weirdest/strangest/creepiest thing that has ever happened to you?

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fruitysmoothie · 15/09/2016 23:31

As the title says...

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gingerbreadmanm · 17/09/2016 18:33

ok, i've been given permission to write this one but im gona chuck some random swear words in just incase.

so, last year my mil who struggled with alcoholism was having a bad episode. this happened often, in cycles, where she would drink heavily for months at a time then detox for months at a time. it was always a tough time for us supporting her during those bad times as she was alone. unfortunately, this last time i was pregnant with pfb after a complicated mmc so decided to stay out of things for the sake of my pregnancy.

sadly at 20wk scan a severe physical disability was discovered. amnio concluded that was the only thing wrong and pfb would be otherwise healthy and live a relatively normal life after some surgery. i was being monitored closely because of this with regular scans.

not long after the amnio dmil was admitted to hospital due to alcoholism. this had happened numerous times before and she would be detoxed and return home around a week later.

this time she was in a little longer. fuck. just remembered daily mail now mil was a wonderful woman and humerous too. she was moved to a side room. for a couple of days we were led to believe this was due to her demands. sadly the hospital got round to telling us she wasnt going to make it this time.

i was over 6 months pregnant at this point. dp and i visited dmil twice a day. she always had family with her, around the clock, apart from maybe an hour or two in the morning. shit. dp and i were absolutely petrified of getting the call or being there when it happened. dmil was early 50s we'd not really experienced this before. on thursday we visited dmil. as i walked down the corridoor i could hear her. i knew today was the day. dp and i were the first there. the nurse confirmed my suspicions sonwe rang around family and told them the time was near. everyone started to make their way there. arse.

it dawned on me to request the last rights for dmil. the vicar came and started. family drifted in. as the vicar spoke dmil breaths got shorted and shallowerer. one sister who had done the night shift was not there yet. she walked in right near the end and took dmils hand. as the vicar finished his service dmil drew her last breath. she waited until everyone was there and her last rights were read. it was so weird and eerily peaceful. we never knew if dmil knew she was dying or not. she never told us.

anyway we couldnt bury her for a while for various reasons she was buried on a friday two weeks after she passed. the following wednesday i had one of the routine scans. the scan revealed pfb had died three weeks before. the day before dmil. except it wasnt. as i remember being very uncomfortable during everything with dmil as pfb was pretty much dancing on my bladder.

i gave birth to pfb exactly one week after dmils funeral. after the funeral we spent lots of time at the cemetery. because of the time of year there were lots of those dandelion fairys. they used to turn up in some really random places.

dp text me a photo last week, over a year after it happened. he was doing some sports work and took some sports equipment with him in his bag. he unpacked the sports stuff at work and laid it on the table. there right in the middle were two fairies stuck together.

i was washing up the other day and looked up and again, there in the window was two fairies stuck together stuck to the window sill.

anyway, a few weeks after everything dp remembered that dmil had said to her in one of their moments spent alone before she passed that she would look after pfb. the post mortem for pfb showed no cause of death.

it haa brought us lots of comfort over the last year.

passportmess · 17/09/2016 18:38

Gingerbread Flowers that's beautiful

MadisonAvenue · 17/09/2016 18:38

So sorry to read about your losses ginger.

dustarr73 · 17/09/2016 18:43

Ah Ginger so sorry to hear that that must have been hard.But hopefully they are looking after each other.Flowers

gingerbreadmanm · 17/09/2016 18:47

thank you. i know its a bit sad but very woo too. weve come a long way in the last year.

MadisonAvenue · 17/09/2016 18:55

When my youngest son was about four he suddenly said "I died in the war" while sitting playing. It immediately caught my attention so I started asking gentle questions. From what he said it seemed to be that it was during the First World War. He told me what his name was (a nickname derived from what is his actual middle name) and said that he hadn't been a soldier in the war but he was 15 and had been ill and died.
It really freaked me out.

A few weeks later I'd met up with a few friends in London for a night out. A friend of a friend is a medium and while we sat in the hotel room waiting for the friend she was sharing with to take a shower I mentioned that my son had said something strange and started to repeat what he'd told me. I only got as far as telling her that he'd said about dying in the war when she held her hand up and told me not to say anything else. She then went on to tell me what my son had said about being ill and dying, and then she asked if he'd said what his name was. I said that he had and she held her hand up again to stop me saying any more and then told me the same name.

I hadn't mentioned anything about what my son had told me to anyone apart from my husband and he had no connection to this group of friends.

Incidentally, while we sat there chatting she looked around me (I was sitting on the edge of the bed) and said hello to the man who was sitting on the bed behind me. Except we were the only two in the room.

I didn't stay in London that night and when I got home I was still feeling shaken up about what she'd said and ran up the stairs and dived under the bed covers.

My son doesn't remember anything of what he told me (he's now 16) but when we got our dog a few years ago he was most insistent about what he should be called and the name that he wanted, which is now the dog's name, was the name he told me that he'd been called.

SuperManStoleMyPants · 17/09/2016 18:58

Oh Ginger what a heartbreaking yet beautifull post. I love the name fairies for the dandelions. I will never look at them the same again. Flowers

LastBusHome · 17/09/2016 19:01

There are some truly amazing stories here. Three of them gave goosebumps.

gingerbreadmanm · 17/09/2016 19:05

well i think they come from dandelions. they literally follow us around now whether random or woo but ill take the woo option anytime.

SuperBoppy · 17/09/2016 19:17

When my Mum found she was terminally ill a friend of hers gave her an amethyst heart. She said it had been given to her by a friend 30 years ago when she was having a hard time. She had a box of hearts, another matching amethyst one, and the rest different.

It gave my Mum great comfort and, after she'd passed away, I thought it only right that we return it so we did.

I had a message from the friend to acknowledge receipt and also saying that when she returned it to the box with the others, the matching amethyst one had broken in too. We were not the only ones heartbroken it would seem.

SuperBoppy · 17/09/2016 19:17

*two, not too!! Urgh!

phlebasconsidered · 17/09/2016 19:18

I love these threads. Even though I sort of don't and sort of do believe.

I've only got a few weirdy stories. When ds was 2 he would blah on about a brown monkey with bees. I assumed this was Night monkey, Day monkey. Then he would chat at night to the monkey that I couldn't see.

We had a barbecue one weekend and a friend who was a keen amateur archaeologist and metal detector told us he had made several good finds in the field at the back of our house where the main part of the monastery used to be. He showed us the old maps and probable sites. Our house was in the herb garden and apiary area. We moved shortly after to buy out own house but I do think monkey / monk.

Our current house is a 1949 council built, few owners. Dd was 2 when we moved here. She has always been funny about having a nightlight, but when she was old enough for a midsleeper I asked if she wanted one. She said no because she would be nearer to the sleeping man on the ceiling. As she reached 6, she started being peculiar about bed and said she could hear breathing that went on and then stopped. We redecorated, and still she didnt like her room. My friend is a bit woo and she said she could feel a man in the room.

Anyway, bit of digging and asking neighbours and pairing it with house history from the deeds etc, it transpires the original tenants had the house as aarried couple, raised a family, but the wife died of cancer and left a husband. He carried on for a bit but after he lost a son to a military accident he took an overdose in the spare room. Dd's room.

I didn't want to take it seriously but my friend suggested her mum come over and ask him to leave. She is apparently good at shit like that.I am very sceptical but figured it couldn't hurt. Seems to have done the trick. I am still unconvinced but something has clearly changed for dd and sleep, so even if it's placebo I'm happy!

ItsNiceItsDifferentItsUnusual · 17/09/2016 19:28

This is a story my mum told me. Years ago, before her and my dad separated, they and some friends were doing a ouija board. The board spelt out the name 'Jane'. Didn't mean anything at the time but my dad later went on to have an affair and leave my mum, and the name of his first born with the OW was 'Jane'.

Jane isn't the real name obviously, it was actually quite an unusual name in reality.

Friendofsadgirl · 17/09/2016 19:37

Puzzledandpissedoff, I suspect your mum is just saying Hello but it must be really disconcerting.
Do you have other photos of your DM up in your house?

Ginger, Flowers

jonnyc · 17/09/2016 19:43

I was visiting my sister. I sat on the sofa and asked my 3 year old nephew to come and sit next to me, he then said to me, "ask the man to move up then," There was no one sitting next to me. Shock

BuddyC4t · 17/09/2016 19:49

Love this

ArchiesMamaBird · 17/09/2016 19:56

Shameless Place Marking for when DS is in bed Wine

expatinscotland · 17/09/2016 20:00

It sounds far out, Puzzled, but next time that photo turns up you say, loudly and firmly, 'You know I love you, Mum, but I don't like seeing you this way. I don't want to remember you this way. Please stop it.'

Puzzledandpissedoff · 17/09/2016 20:24

Friendof yes I have a lovely photo of her on my windowsill, standing in her beautiful garden and dressed up ready for an event - she was always a very stylish lady and the photo mean a lot to me

expat I'll give it a go (frankly I'll give anything a go) and let you know if it makes any difference, though TBH I can't quite see how?

MrsLion · 17/09/2016 20:34

Another person with unexplained lost time. I was in my 20s and living with flat mates.
I'd leave the house during the week at the same time each day to get the train to work. 10 minutes walk to the station max.

Left one day at the same time. Checked house clock and my own watch at some point during the morning and housemates all on their usual schedules too.

Got to station without any diversions or distractions, just any other day.
I had done this so many times I knew I had about 5 minutes to wait, so I sat down on a seat.
When my train didn't arrive I checked the station clock and then my own watch and it had taken nearly an hour to get to the station.

I have tried to think of other explanations for this over the years but I just can't explain where that time went to this day.

It's never happened again.

FireSquirrel · 17/09/2016 21:06

Wow puzzle that's freaky. I suppose the logical explanation is that someone close to you and with access to your house has a nasty vindictive streak and gets a kick out of freaking you out, although that in itself sounds far fetched, you'd have to be pretty evil to do something like that.

If it is something woo then I suppose expat's suggestion of asking who/whatever it is to stop has as much chance of working as anything else Hmm

Pulluptothebumperbaby · 17/09/2016 21:16

Apologies for the long post but I feel the need to tell people who, hopefully, won't think it's too woo bonkers!

We had a few unbelievable experiences when we lived in the Channel Islands. We rented a property that was originally the servants' quarters of the big house to which it was attached.

In the room we used as our dining room, there was a bricked-up doorway that had obviously been the access from the servants' quarters to the main house. We would often hear a door banging. I assumed it was the resident of the main house banging a door on the other side of the wall but would always comment to my DH that it sounded so clear like it was a door in the room not on the other side. It was only when the next door neighbour went away and the property was empty for weeks but the door banging continued that I began to think all was not as it seemed.

I'm not very attuned to spiritual realms and I never felt anything untoward in the house. I would, however, often wake during the night and the time would always be the same - 02:22. I awoke one night at the usual time and standing next to the bed was a man. He said nothing and it just seemed I became less aware of him being there rather than him disappearing. I'm pretty sure I was awake and didn't dream it (although that is always a possibility).

This has just been a preamble to the really unbelievable events. In June 2011 I gave birth to my first DC. Being clueless, I shipped my mum over from the UK to show me the ropes. All was quiet on the first night. On the morning following the second night my mum came into my bedroom and I could see she was very upset. She said she had been in bed and not long after midnight she had heard what sounded like someone running up the stairs, thundering along the landing and bursting into her room. Except the door hadn't opened. She said she felt like something was lying on top of her, pulling off the duvet and grappling for her throat! I was totally horrified! I actually thought my mother had gone bonkers as it sounded like madness! But things got weirder.

We had an Angel Care monitor for DS and every time my mum entered our bedroom the alarm would sound even when the monitor was switched off. I brushed it off thinking that I hadn't set up the monitor properly.

That night my mum went to bed but kept the bedside lamp on. My husband looked in on her and due to some miscommunication, he turned the light off and my mum was too scared to get out to turn it on. At the same time as the previous incident had happened the night before - 00:29 - my mum's mobile phone started ringing. I heard the phone and went across the hall to my mum's room. She jumped out of bed as I turned on the light. Firstly, the ringtone that sounded was not the ringtone that was set. In fact, I couldn't find the ringtone at all when I searched through the phone's sounds. I checked that no calls, messages, notifications been made to or from the phone, no alarms were set, no calendar reminders that would have set the phone off. Nothing. Secondly , my mum gasped as she looked at the bed she'd just got out of. All the items from the bedside cabinet we're lying on the bed along with some long grey hairs (not belonging to us).

My mum began sleeping with a rosary pinned to the pillow, the lights on and not going to bed til after 00:29. There were no more night incidents. One afternoon my mum went upstairs and came back down looking perplexed. She said she had gone into the bedroom to find her towel sopping wet. She couldn't understand how this had happened as it had been dry an hour before. I went upstairs to retrieve the dripping towel only to find a perfectly dry one!

Things settled down and my mum went back to England. The vibe in the house had definitely changed and their was a very negative feeling. DH asked a priest to come and visit and he also felt a sense of unease in the house. He blessed the house and we had a Eucharist in the lounge.

The lease on the house was coming to an end and we had found another property so left the house when my little one was eight weeks old.

It was months later when my mum came to stay in our new house. She said she was so relieved we had left the other property as she hadn't told me the full story as she was so traumatised and hadn't wanted to frighten me. She told me that she'd been deeply affected by what had happened and had sought help from a Catholic priest to deal with it (my mum is a practising catholic). She claimed that the force that had come charging into the bedroom on the first night was a male force and it had tried to rape her. She had fought it and started praying to God to help her and she managed to escape. I felt physically sick (and still do) at the thought of this. I didn't know what to say. I told DH who said my mum must have made it up but she is a very normal, sane, rational person who would never make up such a horrific story.

RhodaBorrocks · 17/09/2016 21:19

Shameless placemark.

I don't have anything nearly as woo as these to share.

CasanovaFrankenstein · 17/09/2016 21:28

I've got no proper story, I have yet to see any good enough evidence to show ghosts are real but I've always found it easier to think if there is any kind of afterlife it would be more like ghosts than something organised like heaven!

However - recently I had a really odd experience being in a house where I felt a 'presence'. It was creepy to the point of hairs standing up - really really odd. Can't really ask the person whose house it is if it's haunted!!

expatinscotland · 17/09/2016 21:32

'She claimed that the force that had come charging into the bedroom on the first night was a male force and it had tried to rape her. '

This is suggestive of something very bad indeed, possibly that was never human.

There is a house round here where that happened to a young girl. It's a beautiful house, but you couldn't pay me to stay in it.