I'm going to post something I've never told anyone in RL, mainly because I'd really love it if anyone can suggest something - though god knows what - to make this stop
After my dearly loved mum died, my father took a photo of her in her coffin at the funeral place. I hated the idea though obviously it was up to him, and I hated it still more when he gave me a copy - so I gave it to my then DH who shredded it for me
Except that it keeps turning up
Admittedly not very often, but at least six or seven times over the years I've opened a book to find the same photo between the pages, or looked through some old photos to find it among them - once I even found it under a drawer liner. It's not that there's anything wrong with the photo per se, just that I much prefer my happy memories of her alive and don't feel this has any place in my life if that makes sense?
She'd never have wanted this and there seems no explanation of how or why it happens; unfortunately, at least for now, it just seems to be something I'm stuck with ...