Think I've accidentally been a bit U.
It is DH's birthday today. We have agreed not to buy each other presents any more (except for significant birthdays) but to help our 3yo DD make/buy a present.
So DD wanted to give daddy a heart. I helped her decorate a polystyrene craft heart. She chose and wrote a card. And I picked up a small box of biscuits which DD chose. We made a birthday cake too, DD helped. In total I spent 3 afternoons with DD preparing things, total spend about a tenner.
Anyway, DH thinks the heart is a Christmas tree decoration, did not seem impressed by the biscuits (made a comment about saving the wrapping paper for next year, I said I wasn't that skint, he said 'are you sure? I got biscuits for my birthday!') and the cake turned out to be inedible.
So was I U to have made/bought those things for his birthday and should have done/spent more? Or was it a good idea and he is just rude and ungrateful?