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to ask you all to consider fostering an animal for a DV survivor?

18 replies

catlover834 · 06/09/2016 21:34

Shamelessly posting here for traffic. I have just started fostering an animal through a brilliant scheme and was shocked to hear that they are desperately short of foster carers.

Petretreat is run jointly by Women's Aid and the RSPCA. It offers temporary foster care for established pets belonging to families who have had to flee domestic violence. You look after the animal for a couple of months until the family are safe, housed in a new place and back on their feet.

Many refuges do not allow pets and survivors of DV are often reluctant to leave them behind with a violent perpetrator. Giving them the option of foster care removes one of the many challenges of leaving a violent relationship.

They need foster carers from everything from gerbils to horses and will pay for all food, equipment and vets bills whilst the animal is in your care. My cat was very timid when she first arrived, but with a bit of love and a lot of tuna she is slowly coming out of her shell.

It is definitely worth a look:
www.rspca.org.uk/whatwedo/petretreat/fosterers

OP posts:
JellyBelli · 06/09/2016 21:37

Thats an excellent idea Smile

RebelandaStunner · 06/09/2016 22:18

Definitely something I would consider in the future, thanks for the tip.

Omgkitties · 06/09/2016 22:20

100% would do it!!

ImaFrayedKnot · 06/09/2016 22:23

I had to leave the marital home and couldn't take my cats. ExH said he would have them rehomed. The local vet found a foster carer who looked after them for 9 months (I paid for cat food costs etc) until DS and I got settled. I am forever grateful, it has made such a difference to me having the cats back now we are in our new home. Heartfelt thanks to anyone considering doing this.

LilyLapwing · 06/09/2016 22:25

What a wonderful idea! Not really in a position to do it myself but have shared with friends.

harderandharder2breathe · 06/09/2016 22:26

I would love to if I could but I rent and not allowed pets. Great idea though!

dontwannapullahammie · 06/09/2016 22:27

This is definitely something I would look into once I'm in my own place. Dogs trust run a similar scheme but only in certain areas

elQuintoConyo · 06/09/2016 22:27

Great idea! I'm in Spain, so unfortunately can't physically help, but I will link on Facebook. Thanks.

GinIsIn · 06/09/2016 22:28

Of course - we could do that!

justdontevenfuckingstart · 06/09/2016 22:30

Wonderful idea, I will look into it.

MermaidTears · 06/09/2016 22:30

I would definitely do this in the future.

CuppaTeaAndAJammieDodger · 06/09/2016 22:30

How bloody lovely - I would love to do it.

coffeetasteslikeshit · 06/09/2016 22:38

Have clicked through and downloaded the form, now just need to sleep on it, but it's definitely something I'd like to do. Thanks!

wtffgs · 06/09/2016 22:43

Lovely idea - our cats are in their twilight years but when the time comes, I'd love to help out.

catlover834 · 07/09/2016 10:23

Fantastic, thanks all.
Flowers to you Ima. So pleased that you didn't have to give up your cats. I can imagine how heartbreaking the thought of that would be.

Apparently animals are often used as a source of control in an abusive relationship - the abuser will threaten to hurt the animal if their partner ever leaves. Sad. You just cannot believe some people.

I send my cat's "mum" pictures every couple of weeks to let her know her pet is doing well and my local RSPCA centre is going to take her for a few days whilst I am on holiday. It is a wonderful scheme.

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Londoncanuck · 07/09/2016 11:36

There is also a programme run by Dogs Trust with Cats Protection (I have two lovely Freedom Project cats at the moment):

www.moretodogstrust.org.uk/freedom-project/freedom-project
www.cats.org.uk/what-we-do/freedom-project

ClockBusCanada · 07/09/2016 12:18

I clicked through and there's an Amazon Wishlist as well as somewhere to donate cash if you can't look after an animal yourself.

Thank you for posting this, OP, I will definitely be interested in getting involved in a more hands-on way when the time comes (I have my hands full with two geriatric moggies for now).

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 07/09/2016 12:27

I think it's an excellent idea but not something I would be able to do - I couldn't hand a foster animal back as I'd be too attached! I will definitely donate to the Freedom Project though.

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