to wonder what the outcomes happen with posters after advice given on mn

[mrsfuzzy]

most aibus get a variety of answers, whether they be angry, funny, constructive or bitchy. but i'm interested to know about the outcomes,
.for me personally there have been a couple of big concerns recently and you lovely people have advised, i've taken it on board and got sorted as a result, but what happens with others ? did you ltb ? get pregnant, sort out your dc, say yes ?? did you get the answer you needed or is the problem still an issue ?

Problem is still an issue but less so after MN.

that's great to hear derek, cliche but a problem shared...hope it's gets even better for you

I got a range of advice when I posted asking about access to my DD inclduing a vicious slagging by one person for not clearly saying I'm the Dad. I haven't gone legal as advised as I still fear a lot of time money and heartche for no improvement (ex refuses to let DD ever have actual Christmas with me, although access in general is pretty OK, though not as much as I'd like)

I learnt my problem was a non-problem. And that there are a few people out there who would rather be really rude than be constructive.

Years ago, under another name, I saw a post by a MNer who was suicidally depressed and alone at home with small DC while her DH was on night shift. We ended up chatting most of the night and I always wondered what happened to her. I'd love to know if she was OK.

was that is so sad for you and dd, perhaps there might be other avenues to explore with regards to access, don't give up hope.
cash if it is problem to you, then it is a problem and if it worries or upsets you, then none has the right to tell you otherwise.
nota that sounds like you were in the right place at the right time, have been in a similar situation like that person and someone talked with me, they have no idea how much that meant to me and not doubt it was the was case for her.