I'm in my mid 30s with 2 children under 4. I now have 3 pairs of Topshop skinny jeans that have torn at the knee (due to all the kneeling down to do up shoes, pull up trousers, pick things up, talk at the toddler's eye level etc). When I went to buy new ones, very similar jeans with very similar tears were being sold for sligthly more than undamaged ones. It's not normally my style but could I get away with wearing the torn ones and pretending they're meant to be like that? I think it's probably a look you have to be a student and thin to pull off.