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Leaving someone stranded at 1am at night

449 replies

dranaksjd · 30/08/2016 15:32

Honest opinions wanted here.

Here's the scenario. My friend (she's 26) foudn herself having to return home much later than she expected. This meant she had to get the last train home from Birmingham city centre.

There was a mix up on the departure board which meant she got on the wrong train and ended up in a tiny train station in a village quite far from any major city.

She was clearly distressed as she got off the train and a couple overheard her conversation to her friend. She explain she had only £10
On her, no bank card on her and no idea where she was and no charge on her phone to call anyone to see if they could pick her up.

The couple said they would take her to the main train station in the nearest city which was 10 minutes drive away.

So she got in the car. They dropped her off at that train station at 1am.

She then found a pub willing to let her charge her phone and then when the pub closed she returned to the train station at 2 am. It was at 4am before she realised she could do an emergency transaction using her natwest online banking app.
She comes across as someone who would be comfortably well off so I'm guessing the couple thought she had money but she had explained she did not have her card on her.

She then paid a lot of money for a taxi home.

Now obviously it was nice of the couple to give her a lift the the main train station, but it didn't actually help her much. And they left her at 1am with no cash on her, outside a train station which was boarded up and closed.

That doesn't sit well with me and isn't something I would do. Or am I being unreasonable? Obviously it was unwise of her to travel back at that time but she was not expecting that morning when she left the house to be travelling at that time.

Honest opinions wanted here. And I'm genuinely not the person this post is about.

Just genuinely interested in what others opinion is.

OP posts:
DesolateWaist · 30/08/2016 19:09

Surely they have a driver though? There will be a member of staff that can assist?
As far as I know on small local services there is no way to contact the driver and no other staff.

DesolateWaist · 30/08/2016 19:10

Edinburgh is a long old way from Birmingham though.

MidnightVelvettheSixth · 30/08/2016 19:11

£400 by taxi from Birmingham to Edinburgh!

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 30/08/2016 19:13

All the best bits about mn on this thread. Haven't had a good one like this for ages.

Thank you brilliant mn people.

Caffeinator · 30/08/2016 19:34

I need to know the station as well and am placemarking.

Brentlicious · 30/08/2016 19:36

Fred and Rose West used to drive around looking for females to give lifts to. She should of thought of that. Or she could of done something else. Of.

DancingOnMyOwn · 30/08/2016 19:49

Thanks for this thread OP, I am having a really shit time right now and this is helping to take my mind off things. Please carry on!

tireddotcom72 · 30/08/2016 19:50

I got on wrong train once and ended up in Milton Keynes not Watford taxi home was £130!!

tireddotcom72 · 30/08/2016 19:53

If it's the same friend should she not be buying food for nephew? No wonder she is skint going on benders then forking out £100 for a cab!! That's an expensive night out! No wonder she only had £5 for food

StorminaBcup · 30/08/2016 19:56

Perhaps OP is going through a -really long-- tunnel?

I think the 'friend' was coming back from London and got stuck at Ely instead of cambs. That'll fit in nicely with the arsenal end of no where / pricey taxi fayre. Although you'd be hard pushed funding a taxi in east Anglia after 9pm.

StorminaBcup · 30/08/2016 19:57

Excellent even got a London pun in there. Arse obvs.

Bambooshoots14 · 30/08/2016 20:00

pudding pal Grin

FrancisCrawford · 30/08/2016 20:00

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

JenLindleyShitMom · 30/08/2016 20:12

Today 17:45 FrancisCrawford

It sounds like the new line up for the Spice Girls:

Poor, Pissed, Perfect, Poverty and Pudding

Grin Grin Grin

I'm crying!

Munstermonchgirl · 30/08/2016 20:21

Dunbar's out of the running??
In that case I'm definitely going for a double reverse to Willesdon Green.

It is a Tuesday after all.

JenLindleyShitMom · 30/08/2016 20:22

I'm still really interested to know what OP thinks a victim looks like. Do they have a sign on their head? Or a special brooch?

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 30/08/2016 20:42

Maybe she was in Nidd

Wink
justdontevenfuckingstart · 30/08/2016 20:57

Noo don't think it would be Ely. Dont think the run that late and it's pretty close to a 24 hour Tesco if memory serves correct.

DesolateWaist · 30/08/2016 21:05

It says in the op thought that it was the last train out of Birmingham.

Oblomov16 · 30/08/2016 21:12

Funniest thread I've read in ages.

PepsiPenguin · 30/08/2016 21:22

So according to some who have advanced searched the OP is a doctor, a teacher has only one child and Twins... I had into the mix that she is also a

Magician

As she appears to have also disappeared...

tumble weed slowly drifts accross the screen

MrTCakes · 30/08/2016 21:28

Loada bollocks

GiddyOnZackHunt · 30/08/2016 21:49

So this train whizzed an hour's travel past her normal stop on the first leg of its journey only to stop suddenly at Pudding Halt in the middle of nowhere before carrying on to Big City?
Is this correct or have I gone up a siding?

Lasaraleen · 30/08/2016 21:54

I have nothing to add but was compelled to post to tell LurkingHusband I got his obscure reference and it made me laugh a lot.

ABloodyDifficultWoman · 30/08/2016 21:57

I have nothing to add but was compelled to post to tell LurkingHusband I got his obscure reference and it made me laugh a lot

I didn't. I don't. I thought he'd gone beserk or something. Grin

What does it mean?

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