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Leaving someone stranded at 1am at night

449 replies

dranaksjd · 30/08/2016 15:32

Honest opinions wanted here.

Here's the scenario. My friend (she's 26) foudn herself having to return home much later than she expected. This meant she had to get the last train home from Birmingham city centre.

There was a mix up on the departure board which meant she got on the wrong train and ended up in a tiny train station in a village quite far from any major city.

She was clearly distressed as she got off the train and a couple overheard her conversation to her friend. She explain she had only £10
On her, no bank card on her and no idea where she was and no charge on her phone to call anyone to see if they could pick her up.

The couple said they would take her to the main train station in the nearest city which was 10 minutes drive away.

So she got in the car. They dropped her off at that train station at 1am.

She then found a pub willing to let her charge her phone and then when the pub closed she returned to the train station at 2 am. It was at 4am before she realised she could do an emergency transaction using her natwest online banking app.
She comes across as someone who would be comfortably well off so I'm guessing the couple thought she had money but she had explained she did not have her card on her.

She then paid a lot of money for a taxi home.

Now obviously it was nice of the couple to give her a lift the the main train station, but it didn't actually help her much. And they left her at 1am with no cash on her, outside a train station which was boarded up and closed.

That doesn't sit well with me and isn't something I would do. Or am I being unreasonable? Obviously it was unwise of her to travel back at that time but she was not expecting that morning when she left the house to be travelling at that time.

Honest opinions wanted here. And I'm genuinely not the person this post is about.

Just genuinely interested in what others opinion is.

OP posts:
SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 30/08/2016 18:19

CandODad - Harry did have to pay a fare on the knight bus - it was 11 sickles - for 13 you get hot chocolate and for 15 sickles you get a hot water bottle and a toothbrush in your choice of colour.

pussinasda · 30/08/2016 18:22

im sure the op will be back any minute now to answer all the questions and declare shes not making it up
not fucking likely

RebelRogue · 30/08/2016 18:27

If her life was a horror movie,she would always be the one that gets killed first

pussinasda · 30/08/2016 18:32

no no rebel im sure it would be her 'friend' that would be killed first

OutDamnedWind · 30/08/2016 18:35

Frankly I'm offended on behalf of 26 year olds everywhere.

Why the fuck did hypothetical pudding not phone people from the pub until she found you someone who could help?

CwtchMeQuick · 30/08/2016 18:36

Also wondering if it was Telford/Wolverhampton/one of the villages in between.

Am I the only one confused as to why she jumped off the train at an empty station rather than asking the ticket conductor for help?

DesolateWaist · 30/08/2016 18:37

Late trains often don't have conductor.

Ifailed · 30/08/2016 18:38

OP seems to have disappeared, hope she didn't get on the wrong train and end up somewhere with a bridge to cross.

marcopront · 30/08/2016 18:38

Any further guesses as to the station. I am thinking about Moor Street with a Chiltern Lines train.

CwtchMeQuick · 30/08/2016 18:41

Surely they have a driver though? There will be a member of staff that can assist?

Also just thought it can't be wolves as I think the last train is about 11.30pm

MrsHam13 · 30/08/2016 18:41

It's ashame she didn't just stay on the train and plug her phone in to charge to contact someone to pick her up at the next station.

RebelRogue · 30/08/2016 18:41

Puss i was talking about the "friend" op would be second for telling off the serial killer because he didn't kill "friend" quickly or painlessly enough Grin

Queenbean · 30/08/2016 18:41

I miss

Is it too soon to start a vintage style comeback?

OutDamnedWind · 30/08/2016 18:41

I was personally thinking the line out to Coventry/Rugby/Birmingham International.

Ifailed · 30/08/2016 18:45

Any further guesses as to the station
Longbridge, Galton Bridge, Tame Bridge parkway?

JudyCoolibar · 30/08/2016 18:45

Why the fuck did hypothetical pudding not phone people from the pub until she found you someone who could help?

OP says "She stayed in the pub that long trying to get a lift" so presumably she did phone round but couldn't find anyone who was willing to get out of bed to come and pick her up, but apparently that's the couple's fault, not the fault of the friends in question. And presumably she didn't get hold of OP who would of course have leapt out of bed, got her twins out of bed and put them in the car, and driven to the rescue.

And not one of her friends suggested to her that she could get a taxi home and then pick up her card and organise payment.

Plus, we learn from the other thread that the £100 she spent on the taxi was virtually all the money she had. But she still took the taxi rather than getting on the first bus or train back home. As you do.

MidnightVelvettheSixth · 30/08/2016 18:48

Can't be arsed to go back & check my facts on the OP's story now, but I live in Coventry.

There are 2 trains from Birmingham that run through Coventry, one is a pootley little thing that stops at every single tiny fucking station & takes ages, the other is a big fast whizzy train, the first stop for the whizzy train is Birmingham airport which isn't tiny. But the pissy little train stops at Adderley Park, I don't know the area but its conceivably a tiny station.

And New Street can be rough although I'm unsure as to whether it closes at night....

JessieMcJessie · 30/08/2016 18:50

I had for some reason pictured Pudding in the pub trying to inveigle a lift from the staff or other customers there, rather than trying to get someone to come and pick her up.

Lorelei76 · 30/08/2016 18:54

COme back OP
Even if it's fictional I've marked it to read on tomorrow's commute.

GinIsIn · 30/08/2016 18:54

I have nothing to say regarding the pissed Pudding's predicament, just stopping by to applaud STDG's Harry Potter geekery....

Also, pretty sure the next train station after Fuckwitville is Cockwombleton, isn't it?

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 30/08/2016 18:58

And after Cockwombleton the slow train stops at Bullshitsuburb.

PenelopePitstop24 · 30/08/2016 18:59

Harry Potter reference was excellent

BaronessEllaSaturday · 30/08/2016 18:59

JessieMcJessie So had I.

Quick question for the Birmingham based are taxis really expensive there because £100 would get you a hell of a long way here and far further than just a few train stops

MidnightVelvettheSixth · 30/08/2016 19:04

A taxi from Birmingham New Street rail station to Coventry rail station is between £52 and £77 according to Google.

I cannot believe I'm looking up prices of a fictional journey for Pudding

FrancisCrawford · 30/08/2016 19:06

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