About to do something spiful. Cathartic or just wrong?

[Wrenniecat1970]

I Want to do something really really spite filled. I have cause. Actually, it might just be funny tainted with a hint of spiteful and it might actually help me heal and hurt.

In a year's time will you wish you'd stopped to breathe and stepped back? If not then enjoy

think before you blink, depends on what you want to do and why, no point ending up on the wrong side of the law because the other person gets the last laugh and you'll look/feel a complete twat. now i'm nosy ......

Hurting someone else does not make you heal.
Moving on from the situation and letting go makes you heal.

Spite is generally not a good thing. It is distinctly different to vengeance or retribution.

What is it then ? < taps fingers >

More info required.

Spill!

We need to know more to be able to advise...

Is it that you hate mn and created a Victorian safe thread?

Go on, spill the beans! Can't possibly advise until we know lol

Hate opening gambits that leave too many ?'s YABU

Bored already!

Spill the beans then.

They say "whoever they are", that. Forgiveness is better than revenge.

Karma will deal with them, sooner or later.

Spill?

I've done a few spiteful things in my time that still make me grin years later. That probably makes me a horrendous bitch but I've never done as bad as the people did to me so I don't lose sleep over it. I'm quite restrained though. A person has to really deserve it. So I suppose it depends what you're planning to do and why.

Gruffalo - like your style.
Live in a lighthouse- bored waiting for karma. This git always comes up smelling of roses.
Domin- I love MN . In recent weeks I've posted a few times. Either for reassurance that IANBU or to give me time to breathe. I moved recently and I have not had much chance to make new friends to bounce my (never ending ) thoughts off.

Everyone else . I appreciate you taking time out to listen and reply to me. I may otherwise go bonkers . X