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Buttered sandwiches

154 replies

ImNotJoeMyNameIsHarry · 20/08/2016 03:11

Please help me and my DP with this. He's just made a sandwich for me. Do you butter both pieces or just the 1?

OP posts:
AppleSetsSail · 20/08/2016 08:33

Butter on sandwiches is wrong. You're supposed to use cream cheese.

wowfudge · 20/08/2016 08:34

Buttering both slices of bread is over indulgent - I've heard it all now. Only on MN.

LavenderEverywhere · 20/08/2016 08:43

That's wrong. He needs to face disciplinary procedures. Everyone knows you need to butter both bits of bread or the fillings won't stick and they will fall out. Plus the butter is the best bit.

This is why I refuse to eat sandwiches in places like Subway and other rubbish places in America. They don't butter the bread and I'm just not having it.

Roussette · 20/08/2016 08:47

Lilinoo you are a woman after my own heart! Me and one of the DDs are obsessed by sandwiches and I can quite understand ordering a platter and living off of them. DD rings me up with her latest sandwich ideas some are horrible and we send each other pics of sandwiches. We are a bit odd grin

Agree on the subway not buttering, their profits are falling because we won't use them for that very reason. Grin

Butter (not spread) both sides. It is Law

ItShouldHaveBeenJess · 20/08/2016 08:50

Personally, I think the OP needs to LTB

ukgift2016 · 20/08/2016 08:58

I only ever buttered one side so bit shocked by this thread, I missed a trick here?

chunters · 20/08/2016 09:12

In the past when I worked in hotel kitchens I was taught just to butter one side. Could have been a cost cutting exercise but worked in some fairly expensive Country House hotels and all used the one side rule.

ForeverEyesOfBlue · 20/08/2016 09:18

I only butter one slice of bread. Sometimes I'll put mayo on the other one if I'm putting salad in the sandwich (lettuce needs mayo IMO) but otherwise I'd make a sandwich exactly like the OP's partner.

dementedma · 20/08/2016 09:21

Butter on both is too much. All you can taste is butter. Depending on the filling I use mayo, mustard or nothing.

SpringBail · 20/08/2016 09:23

I just butter the one side of the bread, right to the edges but with lots of butter.

Julju · 20/08/2016 09:38

Both. Th butter is meant to stop the filling making the bread soggy

MerchantofVenice · 20/08/2016 09:52

Both. If all you can taste is butter then you're spreading it much too thickly! Butter needs to be soft though, or spreading is impossible.

But I'd rather have neither side 'buttered' if it's not actual butter. All that Flora, Utterly Butterly, Clover stuff is vile.

Roussette · 20/08/2016 09:54

I only spread thinly but if I saw a piece of bread in me sandwich with nowt on, I would be Shock

Mycraneisfixed · 20/08/2016 09:57

Both. Why wouldn't you? Hmm

LadyPenelope68 · 20/08/2016 10:14

No butter in sandwiches here, yuck!

Netflixandchill · 20/08/2016 10:18

I do one side butter then the other is mayo and mustard, or mayo and sriracha depending on what I'm having. If I have cheese I usually butter both sides as I hate Mayo and cheese

Jellybean83 · 20/08/2016 10:23

Too buttery, is there such a thing? Shock

Both are thickly buttered so when I bite into a sandwich the layers are bread, thick buttery teeth marks, filling, thick buttery teeth marks, bread. It's the only way!

PurpleDaisies · 20/08/2016 10:25

Too buttery, is there such a thing?

Yes, in a sandwich (apart from a chip sandwich). On fresh crusty bread, absolutely not.

Costacoffeeplease · 20/08/2016 10:25

Neither - butter on bread, fine, cheese/ham etc on bread, fine - butter and filling - gross

CarefullyAirbrushedPotato · 20/08/2016 10:26

Both, there is in fact no such thing as "too much butter".

PageStillNotFound404 · 20/08/2016 10:36

Neither, thin layer of mayo.

Costacoffeeplease · 20/08/2016 10:37

Butter so thick that you can see teeth marks in would make me throw up instantly - shudder

pictish · 20/08/2016 10:39

Both. Dh just does one and his sarnies always fall apart because they are too dry.

Happyhippy45 · 20/08/2016 10:40

This is funny. I was making sandwiches yesterday and thinking about how my mum used to only butter one side. I was raised thinking this was correct. Only rich people buttered both sides😂
Now I only spread the thinnest on layers on both sides.........
If you only butter one side the filling is more likely to fall out.

DeathpunchDoris · 20/08/2016 10:41

He made you a sandwich...that's a nice thing to do. Enjoy it!