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Personal Question?

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Ozwizard · 18/08/2016 21:50

Has your daughter started her periods yet? Yes/No. Is this a reasonable question to ask and for what reason would they need to know? This is on a form for young people wanting to take part on a young fire fighter course.

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Fluffsnuts · 19/08/2016 00:09

Queiro- female staff were advised of the facilities (lack of) and those who were affected could ask not to go. The children we took were in care/ difficult circumstances and so it wasn't a straight forward situation, and needed to be made aware explicitly of why it wasn't suitable etc and it couldn't be relied upon that parents/ care givers would support them/ prepare them for this situation but we were not allowed to discuss it with them without parental consent so we targeted the relevant children as required.

AnnaMarlowe · 19/08/2016 00:09

Actually Oz as you don't have a DD you would be the perfect person to complain about this firm as you couldn't be construed as taking it personally.

Readytomakechanges · 19/08/2016 00:45

I'd probably just draw a third tick box, write 'N/A' next to it and tick that.

Diamogs · 19/08/2016 00:50

Long shot but the only thing that I could possibly think of was if they were practising lifts on one another and for some bizarre reason thought that a girl on their period may be uncomfortable being lifted in case it showed the line of a towel through her clothes

Ozwizard · 19/08/2016 11:37

I can't see that any activities that may take place, should warrant asking the question. It's very bizzare.

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SmilingButClueless · 19/08/2016 13:01

Are they undertaking activities that may require them to get wet / swim / shower? Because that's the only reason I can think of where it's even vaguely appropriate to ask.

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