My mentally abusive ex left three months ago (at my request).
The more I pull away from him, the tighter he hangs onto any control he still has.
We have a 5 year old who has Autism. He loves his films and programmes on Netflix and Amazon. I'm kept sane by social media and music playlists etc.
Ex pays for broadband as his 'maintenance' because BT won't change anything. There's still 6 months left of the contract which is in his name.
Last night he text me to say I am 'so fucking selfish it makes him sick' because he hates the car I worked hard to buy. Nothing wrong with my little car at all - it's a control thing.
Get home, he's logged into the broadband and put controls on so that I can't use whatsapp, Facebook, Instagram, Netflix, YouTube, Amazon prime etc.
He claims our son 'doesn't need Internet access at his age'. I told him I would be phoning BT this morning. He has said that they won't do anything because he is 'more than happy with the service he is receiving'.
I've been nothing but civil and accommodating. I've not once bad mouthed him or made anything difficult for him.
My son has woken up (4 am) and is devastated that he can't watch his Wallace and Gromit. Don't get me wrong, he's not glued to the television / iPad but he absolutely loves his Wallace and Gromit.
If I phone BT today and explain what has happened, will they release me from the six months left over? I want as little to do with this prize idiot as I can now.
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To wonder if there's anything BT will do...
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oaadc · 18/08/2016 04:17
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