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To suddenly feel broody at 46

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Stressedoldmom · 15/08/2016 21:07

What on earth is going on with me?! I have a son who is 20, I had him when 'circumstances' were right but never felt actually broody.
I don't even have a partner....is this my peri-menopausal body telling me to reproduce quickly before it all goes.....

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 16/08/2016 17:23

It's hormones,coincides with a surge in sex drive before menopause hits HmmGrin

limon · 16/08/2016 18:49

I had my baby at 3 months off 44 :)

practy · 16/08/2016 19:38
  1. That means you will be 70 when your child is 16. Rather her than me. Although if she can afford nannies, she will be getting a lot of practical support.
Stressedoldmom · 16/08/2016 22:44

Thanks for all the replies, I see I'm not the only one. I would be horrified to have a baby now, I don't have the patience, room or money, my son has SN following a traumatic brain injury, so can still be hard work sometimes, he definitely wouldn't appreciate a new brother or sister!

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altiara · 17/08/2016 00:47

Would he like a puppy? They have a lot of love Smile

thecatsarecrazy · 17/08/2016 08:59

Yes get a puppy. I saw the most adorable little pup yesterday and felt jealous because I'm pregnant and won't be able to have a puppy for years if I want one hehe. Grin I got broody again after selling all my baby things thinking I was done. The sickness has definitely put me off having any more after this.

BigGreenOlives · 17/08/2016 09:01

Think about how hard it would be to lose the baby weight in your late 40s.

EmmapausalBitch · 17/08/2016 09:58

I'm 47, peri menopausal and no broodiness here thank god. I've never wanted kids, apart from a brief bit of broodiness when I was about 30. Spending time with my toddler niece cured me of that! Grin

I do have dogs though. I much prefer them to children.

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