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AIBU?

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To ring 101 because I obviously live opposite a nest of gigilos (is it a nest?) (not serious don't worry, I know 101 is a waste of time)

32 replies

Verticalvenetianblinds · 19/07/2016 22:31

Ds is now 13 months, I sit on the edge of the bed and feed, a lot. At least 4 times a night and 3 times during the day. I like to stare aimlessly out the window whilst I do this. Opposite house sold about 8months ago. It is (was) 2 bedrooms. Front door leads straight into lounge. Double doors lead to dining room then straight into kitchen. 2 double rooms and a bathroom upstairs. Attic not converted and cellar damp. I may have had a look round when it was on the market....
3 men moved in 8months ago, mid 20s. Nice to watch them moving in :)
Anyway. At all hours of the day and night women come and go, sometimes the same one for a few days, some only stay for 20minutes, some appear to stay the night.
My only conclusion is they are providing a service in there, innocent or not. I fully accept that there may have been building work to turn it into a 3 bedroom house but as I said, I spend a lot of time staring into space/being nosy.
So my aibu is what can I do about it?
Not really, it's how do I find out what they are doing?

OP posts:
GirlWithTheLionHeart · 19/07/2016 22:35

Why do you want to do anything about it? Is it disturbing you?

GirlWithTheLionHeart · 19/07/2016 22:36

Missed your last line Grin

Google the address and see if it.comes up on a site?

19lottie82 · 19/07/2016 22:38

More likely they are drug dealers OP!

Ladymayormaynot · 19/07/2016 22:39

How about watching Hitchcock film Rear Window instead? Or just go and ask them!

Pardonwhat · 19/07/2016 22:39

Go and knock on their door and see what happens? Are they fit? Grin

Verticalvenetianblinds · 19/07/2016 22:48

They are fit! It's not disturbing me, I'm a nosy, sahm and quite bored.
There is tall blond, quite skinny.
Short blond (bout 5'11!) and a bit chunkier than tall blond.
And dark haired one. Similar build to short blond but same height as tall blond but with dark hair (obviously)

I like to think there's a sordid sex pit going on over there, drugs aren't nearly enough glamorous enough.

OP posts:
Amaia10 · 19/07/2016 22:51

Keep them under surveillance! 20 mins would be on the quick side surely though, as far as "services" go? How many women do you estimate over a 24 hr period?

RedHareWithBlondeHair · 19/07/2016 22:51

Grin.

I have to add that houses in which the front door leads to the living or bedroom boil my fucking piss!

RedHareWithBlondeHair · 19/07/2016 22:53

That said, be thankful you have entertainment on those treacherous nights! Wink

Farmmummy · 19/07/2016 23:25

Start googling gigilo sites (are there such things?!) in your area see if they come up. I agree would definitely be much more interesting than drugs!

Verticalvenetianblinds · 19/07/2016 23:31

Oh I love it, regularly update dh (who doesn't care)
Brightens my otherwise dull feeding times. Sorry, I mean special bonding time with my son

OP posts:
starfishmummy · 19/07/2016 23:35

Gigolo if you're googling.

starfishmummy · 19/07/2016 23:37
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Birdsgottafly · 19/07/2016 23:41

It's the twenty minute ones that are intriguing.

Otherwise, the could be Therapists, Mediums etc.

You wouldn't even be happy for a hook up to be over and done with, in that time. Curiouser and Curiouser.

I'd have to strike up a conversation.

SlinkyVagabond · 19/07/2016 23:42

IT would be a bit if a specific type of drug dealers if it was just women though. It is different women is it, not just got lots of friends? Can't be great gigolos if it's only twenty minutes.even dh lasts longer than that.

Icallbullshit3 · 19/07/2016 23:46

Go and say hello at some point? Lol... Just randomly accidently bump into one of them or their guests

Mummyme1987 · 20/07/2016 00:23

Surely if it's only women then it's sex related?

Mummyme1987 · 20/07/2016 00:24

If it was drugs then both men and women would visit.

Mummyme1987 · 20/07/2016 00:25

is completely over invested in this thread

Verticalvenetianblinds · 20/07/2016 06:56

Last night we had (when I was awake to see) tall blond came home with a pretty brunette in her 20s about 11.30. And when I woke up this morning, dark haired went to work ( I asssume) so a boring night on gigolo watch (thankyou for the correction starfishmummy)
But where do they all sleep even if it is drugs? Unless they are a couple and a single?
Fyi I have seen the same ladies a couple of times, and they are noisy, have lots of bbqs etc so maybe they are just mates?

OP posts:
CaoNiMao · 20/07/2016 07:18

I only clicked on this thread to see what sort of insect/reptile a "gigilo" was that may have built a nest opposite OP's house...

JessieMcJessie · 20/07/2016 08:11

Possibly they are v hard up and so two of them are sharing a twin room? Or perhaps they are using the dining room as a bedroom?

As for what on earth is going on, intriguing...do they definitely all go out to work? Perhaps they are running some sort of startup business from home, which involves focus groups of young women? I wonder if you could search for the address at Companies House?

starchildareyoulistening · 20/07/2016 08:24

Maybe they have some kind of hair/beauty business? 20 min is long enough for a quick eyebrow wax.

LindyHemming · 20/07/2016 08:54

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Farmmummy · 20/07/2016 09:02

Tbf lately I'd be quite pleased with 20 mins lol

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