I really don't know where to start!!! My husband has recently been on a health kick infact very obsessive and he has started on my girls who are 12 and 7. At first it was cutting out sweets and rubbish, sugary drinks etc. Then it was telling them in not so many words that being fat like me (im very overweight) is not acceptable and that they don't want to end up like me. I understand that i of course, i don't want my girls obese but a healthy weight for their age. Bear in mind at night when kids are in bed he eats sweets! . He is all health health health, no sugar at all, even a yogurt etc, they are not allowed anything but what he cooks , he does cook nice dinners, and they do eat it . My twelve year old has lost weight, and is very aware of this (he tells her its a growth spurt) and clothes that fitted her last month are hanging on her. My 7 year old is going the same way. I undersatnd that no sugar helps, behaviour etc and it has, but surely he is going too far? today was the final straw when he came home from the shops with a present for them , kids were excited to see what he'd brought, a toy or comic etc and he handed them ........ weights!!!!! what should i do? i am really worried my girls are going to end up ill .