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Galantymessss · 10/07/2016 00:00

Semi been asked out over text. It was a bit of a rubbish asking out, he basucally said he would be in x place so to let him know if I was around... Blush We have been on dates before but not for a while (long story) so this is definitely what it is! Reply now or later? He's shy I think if that makes a difference.

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MooPointCowsOpinion · 10/07/2016 00:01

Did he ask you out just now?

Crunchymum · 10/07/2016 00:01

Have you had sex?

Galantymessss · 10/07/2016 00:03

No we haven't. Yeah like 10 minutes ago, it's not a booty call btw, we don't live nearby. He means in general.

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Galantymessss · 10/07/2016 00:04

I think this is his way, we've been texting as just recently got back in touch

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SevenFtBride · 10/07/2016 00:04

Reply now! Although a midnight reply might give the wrong impression Grin

But def reply soon. Game playing, however well intended, does not a good relationship bode.

Good luck and let us know how it goes

SevenFtBride · 10/07/2016 00:05

Xpost

Galantymessss · 10/07/2016 00:07

Should I just reply now? I've been leaving it a few hours between our other texts Blush

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SevenFtBride · 10/07/2016 00:08

Do you want to chat right now?

SevenFtBride · 10/07/2016 00:09

What is your history?

MooPointCowsOpinion · 10/07/2016 00:11

Just reply, no leaving it a few hours, that's cold.

Galantymessss · 10/07/2016 00:23

Ok fair enough, I'm not trying to play games, just feel like it's a bit keen to reply instantly?

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Galantymessss · 10/07/2016 00:24

History = been on a couple of dates then I went away now back in touch.

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SevenFtBride · 10/07/2016 00:28

So presumably you got back in touch with him first to let him know you were back?

NoahVale · 10/07/2016 00:30

go for it.

Galantymessss · 10/07/2016 00:31

No he did... Randomly!

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NoahVale · 10/07/2016 00:31

if this was a friend, and you received a gtext, you woudl reply immediatley no queiston?

SevenFtBride · 10/07/2016 00:32

He sounds keen! How attracted to him are you?

WorraLiberty · 10/07/2016 00:35

Don't play games, it's not fair especially if he's shy.

If you want to say yes, then be adult about it and let him know.

Galantymessss · 10/07/2016 00:40

Yeah but at midnight? Text now?

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WorraLiberty · 10/07/2016 00:42

I'm not sure why the time matters?

Are you afraid of waking him up? It's up to him to put his phone on silent if he's gone to bed.

Tartyflette · 10/07/2016 00:52

Could you not reply saying something like
"That sounds nice, we can sort out the details tomorrow/later"
Or similar

Ginkypig · 10/07/2016 01:09

Either you want to or you don't.

If you dnot then reply in the morning.

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