Inappropriate tinder chat

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Playing "would you rather" with tinder match but all very clean, funny and jokey. He pipes up with "which do you prefer - your boobs or your bum" and how he is struggling to tell from my pictures Also keeps addressing me as a "cute little blondey" (bleurgh)...

Aibu to feel a bit sickened?!

You seem very sheltered to Tinder if you consider that inappropriate!! Would you rather often becomes a bit flirtatious - it's not like he's said anything outrageous. 'Sickened' seems a complete overreaction. But obviously if it's putting you off meeting him then don't.

Yeah you're right, sickened is a tad strong To be fair I'm not new to tinder at all and I've heard worse of course. Just thought it was a bit forward in first conversation! We live v far away so it's not like we can literally just meet for, well, sex either!

Just stop messaging and block. You're going to get a lot of that though I warn you.

If this sickens you, Tinder is not the place for you.

Never used tinder (nor any of the online dating things) assumed this would be the least of it.

'Cute little blondie'

Yes, that would make me feel sickly also. YANBU

You're on Tinder.

Check out Tinder Nightmares on Instagram if you are somehow still in any doubt.

I have a friend who uses tinder so even I know that this is super tame by tinder standards.

He wants cyber sex. If they can't get it in real life online will do!