To think my mother laughing at my son's private parts is extremely inappropriate

[Datedthedevil]

I was on holiday with my 68 year old mother last week. One evening whilst changing my three year old son's nappy she walked over, pointed at his bits, laughed and said 'it's like a penis only smaller'

I yelled at her and told her it was very inappropriate and isn't at all funny as it will give him a complex and it's cruel and unkind.

She says he doesn't understand but I don't care. I don't think you should do this to a child.

I was then criticised for being miserable with no sense of humour and a bitch. Am I being unreasonable?

1/10

See, I'm just confused - after a week with my mother my brain is shot. . I have nothing to hide, I'm not being dodgy.

Doesn't a default username pop up in the add new post section for you, OP?

I've always had my current username pop up as a default. Saves any angst about 'what's my name again?'

Anyway, no one should be making jokes about a 3 yr old's penis.

By why did you have to change your name between the first and second post?

Oh, and one of your usernames is an anagram of your real name, I don't think it's sensible to be telling everyone that.

MrsJoey - yes I saw that but I didn't think it was right so changed it! I honestly was not trying to be dodgy, I'm just rubbish on here. thank you :) I'll ignore it and leave it as caramel then.

I'm not bothered if anyone knows its me, i never really post. Im just so wound up after my holiday i needed to check i wasn't wrong about this. and the name change half way through is because I'm a prize doofus.

No, you're not wrong. Your mother's "joke" is inappropriate and not funny.

So what are you doing OP? Changing you name every time you post? You saying you're not using the default one?

Point at her chest the next time you see her. Laugh. Then say

'They are like tits only droopier'.

Are you Althea T. Crumborn, op?

Is that an anagram?

Op said Caramelbutthorn was an anagram of her real name, so I was just hazarding a guess.

An inspired guess

Ok, I have no idea what's going on

Was your mother drunk?

Actually, I think I've worked out a plausible name, (don'tcha just love an anagram!) but I won't out you,op!

OK - now the thread has gone really weird - I can see two more posts on this thread when I look in active convos...but they don't appear when I click on the thread.
PrettyDumb Thu 23-Jun-16 00:51:32
Was your mother drunk?
mrsclooneytoyou Thu 23-Jun-16 00:51:30
Ok, I have no idea what's going on

And now they are there. That's never happened to me on MN before.

OP are you logging in, posting and then logging out again, so that every time you want to post you have to log in again? If not I can't understand how or why you keep changing names.

ok...ok... I'll come clean. My real name is CarnalBumHotter

Seriously, what's going on?

What is going on? I'm an idiot.
I asked a genuine question about something which happened on a holiday I got back from on Monday.
I didn't think my username was caramel so manually typed in what i thought it was - datedthedevil.

There's nothing sinister going on, i'm not trying to deceive anyone. I was being dense due to inexperience on here, being over tired, stressed out not concentrating as I've got too much on my mind. I'm sorry for the confusion I have caused.

Thing is you managed to type Datedthedevil in the OP, datedthedevil in another post, then Caramelbutthorn less than a minute after you had used datedthedevil. So only the OP is highlighted as being posted by the OP, the others just sort of merge in and it looked like you were deliberately trying to confuse things. But I'm assured it was all a big NC fail.
And it is still a weird comment for your DM to make.