Because honestly if this had been a friend and a partner rather than a teen I would be saying LTB.
She has some sensory issues and mild sen. She has also had a shit time at school recently but is moving.
Last night she couldn't find her tablet and after searching for an hour she lost it completely.
Hitting, scratching, kicking in stomach as I had surgery and scars there, twisting my hands because she knows I have arthritis, pushing, screaming, throwing things at my face across the room inc a bottle, a boiled sweet, a close I had just cleaned the dogs vomit up with, tipped the bin out everywhere.
I managed to get out of the room and lock myself in the bathroom out of her way and she started kicking the door in.
When she had stopped I spoke to her and was very cross, I made her tidy up and she is grounded. She wasn't remorseful, it was all my fault apparently.
I hadn't helped her look (I had)
I had pushed her buttons
I had annoyed her
I had brought it on myself
I had only had her to ruin her life and am a terrible mother.
I'm furious this morning. I can't even face looking at her.
She has had teenage strops before but nothing like this.