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To think this house sitter was bloody cheeky?

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Littlefluffyclouds81 · 18/06/2016 23:38

My DM recently got a house sitter for 10 days whilst we all went on holiday. She had used her once before and all seemed fine. She seemed very professional - took detailed information about all the animals, signed contracts, she is fully insured etc.

She was supposed to sleep at my DM's house each night, although my DM was aware that she would need to pop back here and there to exercise her own dogs (she lives with her parents).

She was paid over £600, and for that she had to look after 2 dogs and feed a cat. There are also 2 horses at my mum's, my mum's horse who is a big cob, and my daughter's pony. She wasn't expected to do anything with the horses.

While we were away the house sitter emailed to ask if it would be ok if her partner's kids came to meet the horses. My DM said that was fine. When we got back, my mum had a good chat with her and the house sitter said that the kids had come over and groomed my mum's horse, but not my daughter's pony because she was grumpy (she is grumpy).

I was the first to go into the tack room, and noticed that the bridles weren't in the right place. I didn't really think anything of it. But today my DM said that there is grease on the bottom of her saddle, from where the saddle pad hasn't been put on properly and it has rubbed the horse, which she wouldn't do. Also her bridle had been done up all wrong. The stirrups on both saddles were at different lengths to how they'd been left by Us. She suspected that the house sitter had taken the kids riding on our horses. This was confirmed when she went for a ride around the village today and a neighbour (who has booked the same house sitter) said that the house sitter had emailed a picture with the kid sat on her horse!

Not only is riding someone's horses without their permission incredibly rude, it is also a really stupid thing to do. She knew nothing about our horses, they could have had any kind of quirks, and putting 2 kids on them (when she doesn't appear to know much about horses herself) was just bloody dangerous.

Not only that, but my DM said there's no way that the bed was slept in for 10 nights, so she suspects that the house sitter had left the dogs overnight which she wasn't supposed to do.

WWYD? I absolutely think that something should be said to the house sitter, but my DM is veering towards leaving it, and just locking the tack room if she uses her again! She was paid a lot of money, and in my opinion, took the piss.

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MichelleScarn · 28/05/2021 15:57

@SchrodingersImmigrant you are welcome Grin

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2bazookas · 28/05/2021 15:58

I'd certainly warn the neighbour who has also booked her. Let the word get around...

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SpeakingFranglais · 28/05/2021 15:59

I remember this thread originally, I must have been on here longer than I thought.

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BornInAUFO · 28/05/2021 16:07

The only thing worse than a zombie thread is people giving advice who haven’t even read the full thread! Argh!

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ifIwerenotanandroid · 28/05/2021 16:15

When I noticed (early on) that this was a zombie thread, I just read the OP's posts & I must say it was an entertaining read. I wish there had been a more satisfying ending, though. Hey ho.

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LakieLady · 28/05/2021 16:16

What is it with all the zombie threads today?

This is at least the third one I've seen, if not the fourth.

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FrozenVag · 28/05/2021 16:24

Somebody stupid and selfish enough to take your horse out won’t have bothered to wash the sheets

I can’t believe somebody did that’

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dontcallmelen · 28/05/2021 16:31

Half term maybe?

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HoldMeCloserTonyDanza · 28/05/2021 16:37

I would love to know if the house sitter is still in business five years later! Did the relationship with Forces Boyfriend survive the controversy?!

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RogueMNerKnowsNoShame · 28/05/2021 16:38

love a good zombie

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Lazydaz · 28/05/2021 16:56

Why would she Use someone so untrust worthy again? The bed thing, I don’t get.

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Sorka · 28/05/2021 17:08

🧟‍♀️🧟🧟‍♂️

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KatherineJaneway · 28/05/2021 17:16

Is there just one person name changing and resurrecting all these threads?

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Blossomtoes · 28/05/2021 17:17

@KatherineJaneway

Is there just one person name changing and resurrecting all these threads?

God knows. I wish they’d stop though.
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Dogscanteatonions · 28/05/2021 17:33

I'm just fucking waiting for the Mexican house thief to resurrect but then wasn't that in comments on another thread or am I wrong?

In your head, in your head they are crying...

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LadyJaye · 28/05/2021 17:52

I've done house-sitting in the past, BUT I'm an experienced equestrian (BHSI), so frequently care for horses, dogs, cats, furries and smaller stock animals (goats, pigs etc).

I'd also expect to be staying on site, so I think £60 a day for that level of care is reasonable (often includes basic veterinary care, some land management, housekeeping etc)

However, somebody with no/limited experience nipping in and out of your property to do a bit of caretaking? Nah.

Also, I'd be FUCKING FURIOUS if somebody rode my horses without my express permission.

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extravirginoliveoil · 28/05/2021 18:10

@Dogscanteatonions

I'm just fucking waiting for the Mexican house thief to resurrect but then wasn't that in comments on another thread or am I wrong?

In your head, in your head they are crying...

I love the Mexican house thief 😂
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SilverGoblin · 28/05/2021 18:16

I had read most of the OP's posts before noticing the date.

Bloody zombie threads.

If it's going to keep popping up, maybe Mumsnet should add a sub title, I suggest "Anatomy of a Vendetta".

While OP's mother had every right to be angry and seek a solution with the sitter, the OP had zero right to go leaving reviews, writing to military commanders and private messaging other posters the sitter's location and identity as she was not the client. Trying to ruin someones livelihood over one ill judgred incident that left no lasting damage, for me, was just too far but then again the tone seemed quite nasty from the beginning.

Before anyone calls me out on my saying of no lasting damage by mentioning the cat, that cat should have been PTS before their holiday. It was not the sitters fault she had been left with a dying animal.

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FrozenVag · 28/05/2021 22:29

If you clock “see all” and read through her updates, it just comes across as very vengeful and pretty vitriolic.

Honestly, contacting the guy’s workplace? That’s crackers!

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INneedOFaSTIFF1 · 29/05/2021 17:56

@MustardRose

How the heck do people even find these zombie threads in the first place?

The search function on this site is shit and always brings up ancient Freds
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LovelyIssues · 29/05/2021 17:59

That is so dangerous!! I would threaten to report her or have at least half my money refunded. Disgusting

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Kippersbigfeet · 29/05/2021 18:27

Mumsnet have sent two zombie threads out in todays email wtf. Bad enough someone resurrected them but for Mumsnet to include them in the daily is ridiculous.

Having complained about that I need to know about the neighbour knocking through the wall. I must have missed that one

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Bertiebiscuit · 29/05/2021 20:55

Wow - excuse the bad pun but she literally took you all for a ride - sack her and tell her why

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DaphneMoonsSeattle · 29/05/2021 21:05

All these comments are just closing the stable door after the horse has bolted.

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SchrodingersImmigrant · 29/05/2021 21:43

@DaphneMoonsSeattle

All these comments are just closing the stable door after the horse has bolted.

😂
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