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To think this house sitter was bloody cheeky?

818 replies

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 18/06/2016 23:38

My DM recently got a house sitter for 10 days whilst we all went on holiday. She had used her once before and all seemed fine. She seemed very professional - took detailed information about all the animals, signed contracts, she is fully insured etc.

She was supposed to sleep at my DM's house each night, although my DM was aware that she would need to pop back here and there to exercise her own dogs (she lives with her parents).

She was paid over £600, and for that she had to look after 2 dogs and feed a cat. There are also 2 horses at my mum's, my mum's horse who is a big cob, and my daughter's pony. She wasn't expected to do anything with the horses.

While we were away the house sitter emailed to ask if it would be ok if her partner's kids came to meet the horses. My DM said that was fine. When we got back, my mum had a good chat with her and the house sitter said that the kids had come over and groomed my mum's horse, but not my daughter's pony because she was grumpy (she is grumpy).

I was the first to go into the tack room, and noticed that the bridles weren't in the right place. I didn't really think anything of it. But today my DM said that there is grease on the bottom of her saddle, from where the saddle pad hasn't been put on properly and it has rubbed the horse, which she wouldn't do. Also her bridle had been done up all wrong. The stirrups on both saddles were at different lengths to how they'd been left by Us. She suspected that the house sitter had taken the kids riding on our horses. This was confirmed when she went for a ride around the village today and a neighbour (who has booked the same house sitter) said that the house sitter had emailed a picture with the kid sat on her horse!

Not only is riding someone's horses without their permission incredibly rude, it is also a really stupid thing to do. She knew nothing about our horses, they could have had any kind of quirks, and putting 2 kids on them (when she doesn't appear to know much about horses herself) was just bloody dangerous.

Not only that, but my DM said there's no way that the bed was slept in for 10 nights, so she suspects that the house sitter had left the dogs overnight which she wasn't supposed to do.

WWYD? I absolutely think that something should be said to the house sitter, but my DM is veering towards leaving it, and just locking the tack room if she uses her again! She was paid a lot of money, and in my opinion, took the piss.

OP posts:
Hazylazy · 28/05/2021 13:56

Well I’m in between books and have a day off, so quite enjoying these little zombie tales of woe and strife. Grin

pinkearedcow · 28/05/2021 14:04

Oh FGS with the Zombies today!

Devlesko · 28/05/2021 14:11

Another

ZOMBIE

Immunetypegoblin · 28/05/2021 14:24

I got halfway through and thought 'This sounds familiar' Grin

KaleKitchen · 28/05/2021 14:32

@Littlefluffyclouds81 I haven't read the whole thread so forgive me if this has already been mentioned: Do you about trustedhousesitters.co.uk ? It's bloody brilliant - and FREE apart from the annual membership fee, which is not much (£120 or thereabouts).

We have a feeble old kitty who needs live-in care and we travel a fair bit - you get to choose your housesitter (it's often people from other countries that love to travel and this is a mutually beneficial situation: you get a free housesitter and they get a free place to stay and explore) AND you get to read their reviews from other homeowners.

We have had people from Australia, the USA, England, etc., they stay at ours and we come home to a clean house, a well loved chilled cat. Highly recommended.

Happy to answer questions by DM if anyone wants more detail.

BornInAUFO · 28/05/2021 14:34

@KaleKitchen it’s a zombie thread from 2016

KaleKitchen · 28/05/2021 14:34

OOPS Grin - I just read more and saw it's a ZOMBIE

MjonathanB · 28/05/2021 14:34

Thisisafakename
....she criticises others for misuse of the word ignorant, yet her command of the English language seems scant. Bonified? Should that be bona fide, beetroot?....

Shush, shush.... Don't point that out.

I was looking forward to it entering general usage.

Closetbeanmuncher · 28/05/2021 14:37

I think getting the neighbour who has the photo to send it to us, then email the house sitter with the photo attached along with a rather cross email would be the best thing to do

I would do this. Horses are massive powerful animals and can be very unpredictable and easy spooked, she's an imbacile. I would also never use her again after sending the email.

SchrodingersImmigrant · 28/05/2021 14:38

@Closetbeanmuncher

I think getting the neighbour who has the photo to send it to us, then email the house sitter with the photo attached along with a rather cross email would be the best thing to do

I would do this. Horses are massive powerful animals and can be very unpredictable and easy spooked, she's an imbacile. I would also never use her again after sending the email.

I don't think anyone would care about that email now😂
Closetbeanmuncher · 28/05/2021 14:41

That will teach me for not reading until the end 😂😂 @SchrodingersImmigrant

MichelleScarn · 28/05/2021 14:43

Now I've got the Cranberries 🎵in my heeead in my heeeadd, zombie, zombie eee🎵🧟‍♀️

Waiting for CANCEL THE CHEQUE! or holiday villa thief!

Blankspace101 · 28/05/2021 14:47

Not only that, but my DM said there's no way that the bed was slept in for 10 nights, so she suspects that the house sitter had left the dogs overnight which she wasn't supposed to do.

WTF? Hmm

pinkearedcow · 28/05/2021 14:53

With their tanks, and their bombs
And their bombs, and their guns
In your head, in your head they are crying. . .

SchrodingersImmigrant · 28/05/2021 14:54

@MichelleScarn

Now I've got the Cranberries 🎵in my heeead in my heeeadd, zombie, zombie eee🎵🧟‍♀️

Waiting for CANCEL THE CHEQUE! or holiday villa thief!

I hate you
FudgeFlake · 28/05/2021 14:58

I clicked on this and it took me straight to the comment I made on it... I had no memory of writing anything like that in the last couple of days, I thought perhaps I'd had a glass of Wine too many.. But no, it was because it was nearly five years ago!

JemimaJoy · 28/05/2021 15:05

I'd be pissed off about the horse but find the idea that you can tell how many nights a person slept in a bed just by looking at it really funny 😂😂😂

JemimaJoy · 28/05/2021 15:06

Oh! Its a zombie. Bed thing still made me chuckle Grin

poorbuthappy · 28/05/2021 15:11

Jesus christ what is it about zombie threads today?

But yes...my mum has always been able to tell how much a bed has been slept in....I can't so clearly care less! Grin

SchadenfreudePersonified · 28/05/2021 15:12

@Gide

Man, I'd go ballistic if someone rode my horse without permission! Email her the pic, OP! Would love to hear her reaction.
So would I!

How dare she!?

It's not only her own children she is risking, but the horses, too, and any random member of the public who got caught in the fray.

Suppose one of them had bolted and gone into a rad, or trampled someone? Even if the kids had been in a field and just sitting on the horse for a photo, what if it had been startled (high-pitched childish cry of glee for instance) and run straight into a fence and damaged itself? Who pays the vet bills? Or the cost of an animal that has to be destroyed?

I can't believe your mum is even thinking of trusting her again. There must be someone else. And I would also tell anyone I knew and warn them off using her services.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 28/05/2021 15:13

Zombie?

Oh no!

I was enjoying myself, too.

MustardRose · 28/05/2021 15:42

How the heck do people even find these zombie threads in the first place?

quizqueen · 28/05/2021 15:48

I would email and complain and say she won't be using her again and certainly won't be recommending her to anyone either. That's also far too much to pay.

Dentistlakes · 28/05/2021 15:55

YANBU op. You never, ever ride someone else’s horses without their permission, even if you do know what you’re doing. It’s so out of order.

480Widdio · 28/05/2021 15:56

And the comments keep on coming!

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