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AIBU to book into hotel at 9 months pregnant?

52 replies

Pregasaurusrex · 16/06/2016 15:57

House is being worked on by chump builder, who has already take double the time quoted. Tomorrow is the last day, he has colleagues giving him a hand to finish. They are starting at 8am and planning to finish by 6pm. They play music, and always vape, which annoys me anyway. Husband swans of to work without a backward glance. Consultant told me to rest as baby very small and signs of pre eclampsia. Should I just book into a hotel and spend the day with my feet up?

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Pregasaurusrex · 16/06/2016 15:57

To be clear they are working on every room in the house, so no where to hide!

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TheSparrowhawk · 16/06/2016 15:58

Do you have any friend or family member you could spend the day with?

AppleMagic · 16/06/2016 15:58

YADNBU

LadyAntonella · 16/06/2016 15:59

Yanbu - sounds like a great idea!

Stellars · 16/06/2016 15:59

Do it.

Hadron21 · 16/06/2016 15:59

Do it.

Cornettoninja · 16/06/2016 16:01

Off you go. I'd make it two nights myself.

OneBiscuitAtATime · 16/06/2016 16:02

Yep, go. Take all of your favourite snacks and test yourself.

OneBiscuitAtATime · 16/06/2016 16:02

*treat yourself

FireTruckOhFireTruck · 16/06/2016 16:04

YANBU - it sounds wonderful! Enjoy.

Princesspeach1980 · 16/06/2016 16:05

Sounds heavenly, do it!

SnotGoblin · 16/06/2016 16:06

YANBU

newmumwithquestions · 16/06/2016 16:07

What are you still doing here? Go, go go.

Pregasaurusrex · 16/06/2016 16:07

I do have family up the road. But my mum is a miserable old goat. Besides I think I just want to sleep! Might not even tell arse husband I've gone. Might be a tad hormonal!

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Wait4nothing · 16/06/2016 16:07

YANBU
Go and treat yourself, set a pedicure too!

newmumwithquestions · 16/06/2016 16:09

Ummm although actually read your post again, it's only 2 more hours?

Junosmum · 16/06/2016 16:09

Definitely do it. Especially one with a lovely restaurant for lunch and possibly a pool, or at least a nice bath.

Pregasaurusrex · 16/06/2016 16:10

It's for tomorrow. At the moment I'm sat waiting for them to go for today....

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TribbleTrouble · 16/06/2016 16:11

Do it!! You'll feel so much better for it.

MoreGilmoreGirls · 16/06/2016 16:12

Definitely go for it!

whois · 16/06/2016 16:16

Absolutly not U

Pregasaurusrex · 16/06/2016 16:18

Hmm- joint account or own money?

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memememe94 · 16/06/2016 16:19

Yes, do it

AppleMagic · 16/06/2016 16:19

Joint account. It's a baby expense.

oldlaundbooth · 16/06/2016 16:19

Joint, joint, joint!!!

YANBU.