shagging neighbour

[Chocolatefiend99]

hi

I know I am not being unreasonable at all however I'm using Aibu as I know it gets lots of traffic

as the title suggests my neighbour has sex loudly. and I'm talking loud! I've had 2 conversations with her about it she promised she would be quiet. today I'm sat in my garden hearing her having sex. so loud the whole street can hear. I've recorded it as I'm fed up. I'm gathering evidence now. my quality of life is being impacted. I want to sell up but wouldn't feel right selling to someone with her living next door. I need her evicted now. I'm going to call her landlady and the council. I just wondered if anyone had any experience of this and wondered if there is anything else I can do.

it's not just the loud sex that's the problem her and her boyfriend have loud arguments daily, has music blasting, can hear her effing and blinding to her son. she's just no respect or consideration.

it's affecting my life I'm sat here in tears. I will be telling her that I'm calling her landlady and the council.

any advice would be appreciated

thanks

This is the first time I've ever posted a comment, but I feel really concerned for the child. I have a 7 year old son and have been a single parent for 6 years. I know how tough it can be. However, I really really think this sounds like a child protection issue. That child is living in an environment that is stressful and damaging. His mother clearly needs support to parent him appropriately. Reporting to social services doesn't necessarily mean that he'll be removed from his mothers care. But it does mean that he'll be on the radar and that if things are worse that you have knowledge of (standing in the street, in pjs, covering his ears whilst the adult who should be keeping him safe is having a massive argument is pretty bad imo) mother and child will get help. You have a responsibility to do what you can to assist a vulnerable child. Please report.
Good luck.

You have my sympathy OP, I have been in the same situation. It really is not funny or something you can ignore, especially when you feel like you are in the same room as them as they are giving a running commentary on everything that is going on! Her poor son, I hope a SW has a chat with her.

On a lighter note I saw a post on another forum once by someone who had very loud sex and the neighbours complained. She was very upset that her "happy noises" were not respected She genuinely felt that people should be happy listening to her in the knowledge that she was being satisifed. She must have either been a member here or a reader because she did ask "Am I being unreasonable to think my happy noises should be respected?"

buy her a gag and tell her to use it...sounds like it might be her thing!