Can you fall for someone you've never met

[PearlNicholas]

Met online,local to me , says all the right things and has my heart racing, I'm in danger of getting carried away
I know I sound like a lunatic, I think I need some sense slapped in to me
We've swapped pics and phone numbers and he just sounds to romantic and lovely but it's all complicated, I need to stop but don't know how and don't know if I can,I feel as high as a kite with all the attention

Allegra, but you can check in that case. I have done marriage register checks, Land Registry checks, companies house checks. If you don't want your heart broken check things out. I remember seeing one man was 17 years older than he'd said for example! Do google searches too. The more likely con here is that this man will never leave his wife anyway as 90% of those who cheat never leave their spouse.

I don't want him to leave, I just want to enjoy what we have

Don't believe you are clever enough to cover your tracks - you WILL get caught and then you will be on here crying that your DH has binned you.

My wonderful best friend caught her DH out, as he was on dating websites. She threw his sorry arse out of the door, divorced him and ended up with their house.

What you are both doing is wrong and you know it and no one on here is going to validate your feelings for you.

Your choice - stop now and fix your marriage or get caught and your marriage is over.

You don't have anything, Pearl.