to go on this Hen night even though DH will get the Arse?

[Lertle]

One of my best friends is getting married in September and has invited me on her hen night at the end of August., it's a night out in Blackpool and we would be staying over the night in a hotel (we live about 100 miles away)

I just know DH will get the arse about it if I say I'm going, and if I don't go it will upset my friend

I don't know what to do for the best cos it's gonna piss someone off whatever i do so I can't win

I do actually want to go, I think it will be a laugh. and I hardly ever get to go out with 3 small dc

[Atenco]

Eat, if you have children you will have to get this anxiety treated before they become teenagers.

[HandsomeGroomGiveHerRoom]

AF did the maths. One person (ie your DH) getting the arse is preferable to two. Minimise the arse!

[Kimononono]

Go on the hen do.

It's nothing to do with being 100 miles away. It certainly is a trust issue as you will be staying over I suppose.

If you don't go you can forget about any other hen dos that might pop up.

My Dh is in Ibiza for six days on a stag. I'm going on a girls holiday next year. It really doesn't bother either of us

[coco1810]

Go! Go! Go! YANBU at all.