to go on this Hen night even though DH will get the Arse?

[Lertle]

One of my best friends is getting married in September and has invited me on her hen night at the end of August., it's a night out in Blackpool and we would be staying over the night in a hotel (we live about 100 miles away)

I just know DH will get the arse about it if I say I'm going, and if I don't go it will upset my friend

I don't know what to do for the best cos it's gonna piss someone off whatever i do so I can't win

I do actually want to go, I think it will be a laugh. and I hardly ever get to go out with 3 small dc

Eat, if you have children you will have to get this anxiety treated before they become teenagers.

AF did the maths. One person (ie your DH) getting the arse is preferable to two. Minimise the arse!

Go on the hen do.

It's nothing to do with being 100 miles away. It certainly is a trust issue as you will be staying over I suppose.

If you don't go you can forget about any other hen dos that might pop up.

My Dh is in Ibiza for six days on a stag. I'm going on a girls holiday next year. It really doesn't bother either of us

Go! Go! Go! YANBU at all.