Seeing a friend's husband on a dating website?

[jubileepancakes]

Oh dear. What's the etiquette here?? Do I pretend I haven't seen him or say something?

WIBU to even broach the subject?

If she's really a close friend, the right thing is to tell her! How could you not? I'd be furious if a friend didn't tell me! If she's down with it, no harm done.

I would tell her to her face and take the flak. I'd hate to be told by an anon letter in the post.

Why does it feel wrong to tell her OP?

Why? they'd have to plan to just message and never meet up.

Some people do this - DPs friend used my DPs photo as his profile pic. I have another friend who was messaging a guy until she realised his photo was of a famous person and clearly not him

OP I would screenshot it and sent it to her.

You're in a really tough position. I would probably stay out of it if it were me but I'm one to shy away from confrontation!

I don't get what's tough about this.

She's your friend. Of course you tell her. Wouldn't YOU want to know?