To be fucked off that this video of me was posted on facebook?

[Tobeavsangel]

A year ago I went to a friends hen do at a spa and we were made to take a dance class as a surprise for the bride.

It is 100% not my thing but I sucked it and did it because it was someones special day etc.

One of the party who could not or didnt want to take part decided to film the entire thing.

No one was asked permission but again I wasn't going to complain. But being filmed did make me feel more awkward.

It was agreed by the person filming that it would not go on youtube and would just be sent to the bride for memories.

Now after a year its been posted by the person who filmed it. And its as humiliating as I remember. Aibu to think its unfair of her to do this?

Message her and ask her to remove it?

Could you try reporting it to Facebook (yeah, OK, Zombie knows) stating that you are shown in the video, you did not give permission for its public use and ask for it to be removed?

Untag yourself?

Or report it to Facebook. They might take it down, although really they shouldn't - copyright is held by the filmer and it sounds like you didn't ask not to be filmed.

I'd definitely untag myself though.