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AIBU to be considering meeting him?

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iLikeBoringThings · 20/05/2016 13:28

I broke up with an ex almost 3 years ago. It was a bad relationship, he cheated constantly/didn't treat me well during the 2.5 years we were together. I've been no contact with him since about a month after i ended it.

At the beginning of the break up, he would call/message/email constantly, all of which i ignored and then it eventually tapered off to the occasional email asking how i was etc, which i also ignored.

He hasn't contacted me at all for the past year, until this morning, when i received an email saying that he misses me, that he needs to see me to get some things off his chest, that he needs to apologise for the things he did to me and that he will be waiting for me next sunday at 4pm in a place we used to go years ago.

It took me a long time to get over this guy, despite how he treated me, but i am 100% over him now. I haven't even thought about him in months.

AIBU to kind of want to see what he has to say?

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TendonQueen · 29/05/2016 16:30

Right decision, good for you! Star

WhingyNinja · 29/05/2016 16:37

Well done, OP.

I can only reiterate what all the other posters have said, no good will come of this, I bet he's been dumped recently and feeling sorry for himself.

What did the other emails say? More grovelling?

JennyHolzersGhost · 29/05/2016 16:39

Well done ! Block his email so you aren't tempted after a few glasses to engage in some triumphal exchanges with him when he inevitably contacts you after being stood up!

Creampastry · 30/05/2016 08:53

Excellent. Now block him!

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