There's a mum at school who has a problem with me. I've no idea what it is. She's quite a queen bee character whereas I'm more of a take me as you find me kinda girl.
There have been a few incidents now. Excluding the bitching behind my back, the first was when she hit me at a children's birthday party. I involved the police, filed a report etc. I asked that she wasn't arrested because I didn't want to antagonise her (we've got quite a few years with our children being in the same class). But, my report is serving as a record of the event. I informed school in case there were any repercussions with our children at school. The next incident was when she deliberately walked into me at school. Straight after she was shouting out at how I'd pushed her and gathering all her witnesses up (who strangely enough are all her friends). I didn't say anything to anyone about this. No one was hurt. Today we've had another one. I was walking a child into school and had my arm around her shoulders. The woman mentioned above was walking towards us, not looking where she was going and walked into the child I was with. My instinct was to protect the child so I pushed the woman's hands away. She was carrying keys so scratched me but I'm just pleased I did otherwise it would have been the child's face. I can't remember exactly what I said but it was something like "hey, be careful!" It was only at this point that I realised who it was. She again started gathering witnesses including someone who claimed to have seen everything but had her back to us. Another one of her friends! She then followed me out of the playground, screamed out that I'm a "fucking crazy bitch" along with sticking her fingers up at me. (This is all in front of children from school).
Anyhow, current situation is that I'm trying to convince the school to arrange a mediation meeting. They're understandably reluctant but if she's behaving like that on school property then I feel they have to intervene before someone gets really hurt.
So, AIBU for involving the school?
Nb I believe this morning was a genuine accident
AIBU?
AIBU to involve school?
PlaygroundAngst · 18/05/2016 18:53
It IS the school's responsibility to deal with this as is it happening on school premises. If the school do not attempt to deal with it they are condoning aggressive, bullying and offensive behaviour at their school. The school has a duty of care to their pupils, staff and parents.
This woman is harassing you and you would also be able to get an injunction against her, it only takes 2 or more incidents of this sort to obtain one.
DO NOT feel that you have to move your child to another school because of this women's behaviour. Your child's wellbeing is paramount in all of this and you cannot be bullied by this person and cause disruption to child's education by moving schools, which is a massive upheaval for any child.
I have been through similar, try to keep your council and a dignified silence amongst other parents in the face of it and NEVER rise to any crap she may throw at you.
Good luck 
Wth should the op have to move schools? Why is she as bad?
What a load of bloody victim blaming!
It's disgusting!
She's been attacked and threatened by this woman yet she should move? 
She's not as bad, she pulled a child off of her own when he was being pinned down.
Yes a normal person who saw it and didn't understand maybe angry but a rational person wouldn't go over and punch someone.
Agree with zee what a role model.
Op, file that police report.
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