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To wonder what on earth all these myserious hobbies on MN are?

213 replies

Abbinob · 14/05/2016 22:47

I see so many posts with things like "when i'm doing my hobby" "DH spends 2 hours a week doing his hobby" "a friend from my hobby"

WHAT ARE ALL THESE HOBBIES?

I've never heard anyone say this in RL
"so what you doing tonight?"
"oh you know, i'm going to do my hobby"

It makes me all nosey and agitated trying to work out what these hobbies are

OP posts:
TroysMammy · 15/05/2016 11:21

colsgirl my dp (dry 345 days) says he is going to his club when he attends AA meetings.

StealthPolarBear · 15/05/2016 11:54

There are a few hobbies that I'd rather tell people I was at an aa meeting :o

RaspberryOverload · 15/05/2016 12:01

For run of the mill hobby's like golf, gym, cycling etc I really don't get it!

I agree with Dellarobia, that it's the accumulation of information. The hobby might be one factor and on other threads you could have posted about your children, and eventually may have posted enough to be identified.

BursarsFrogs · 15/05/2016 13:53

DH paints and puts together little Warhammer figurines etc. Calling it vaguely a hobby sounds much better, really. I might call my artsy group activities "a hobby" if I want to be vague and not give too much information about myself.

BertrandRussell · 15/05/2016 14:01

It sounds such a 1950s/60s word, doesn't it? I suppose before that most ordinary people didn't have time. Or the light. And many things that people now think of as hobbies were essentials- knitting, sewing, woodwork- if you needed a jumper or a shelf or a loaf of bread you had to make it.

BertrandRussell · 15/05/2016 14:03

It's all about leisure.

BertrandRussell · 15/05/2016 14:06

I've just had another thought. Jane Austen women are always showing off their accomplishments and making shell boxes and so on- but the only man I can remember doing anything but gardening is the disabled ex sailor in Sense and Sensibility who made made wooden things and nets. The posh boys never do anything.

FirstWeTakeManhattan · 15/05/2016 14:39

I know someone who's DH collected and played alone with action men dolls as a hobby, He'd make aarrgghh noises when they 'fell off the bed cliffs' and everything.

FirstWeTakeManhattan · 15/05/2016 14:39

whose

barbet · 15/05/2016 14:46

I have a hobby I do twice a week - think tennis but with a higher net and instead of a ball a weighted 'cone' of feathers.

This just gave me the giggles, thank you casual Grin

Beepbopboop · 15/05/2016 14:52

I once went on wikipedias list of hobbies to try find a new hobby.
Scrolled up and down with my eyes closed, whatever my pointer landed on was going to be my new hobby:
Web surfing. Grin
So here I am. (Jk, it was already the only thing I ever do.)

Piemernator · 15/05/2016 15:01

Hobbies over the years

Pottery classes for 3 years
Watercolours class 1 year
Salsa class 2 years
Belly dancing 2 years
Karate 2 years
Running many years
Gaming many years
Hockey many years
Cycling many years
Lots of voluntary work

DH hobby is his beloved rowing machine and golf but no time for golf currently.

simonettavespucci · 15/05/2016 16:30

They do spend time riding, driving carriages, and putting on theatrical entertainments Bertrand, all of which would count as hobbies today. Also painting pictures and writing riddles if I recall correctly (Emma).

simonettavespucci · 15/05/2016 16:30

Actually no, not painting - getting pictures framed - sorry, that is different.

simonettavespucci · 15/05/2016 16:33

Also singing, dancing, hunting, and (very important) playing cards.

puglife15 · 15/05/2016 16:52

I always think the hobby is some slightly obscure, really lame martial arts class.

I always think the home business is selling stuff on eBay you imported from China.

I haven't done anything resembling a hobby for over a year, and I do miss it tbh.

GoneGirl1234 · 15/05/2016 16:57

I always think the "expensive and time consuming hobbies" are triathlon ... maybe it's just where I work but most of the 35+ previously very unfit men in the office have decided to take up triathlon and spend ££££s+ on carbon fibre bikes and wetsuits, not to mention trips abroad for the competitions and the weeknight training sessions, weekend events etc.

But I like the idea that they are getting dressed in lycra shortsvto go off and built matchstick models of the Empire State Building much better Grin

Sparklingbrook · 15/05/2016 18:03

My sister says the cheapest part of horse ownership is buying the horse. Shock

QueenofLouisiana · 15/05/2016 18:24

DH's hobby seems to be falling asleep on the sofa- it's time consuming (about an hour and a half today) and inconvenient (snores too loudly). There's another woman involved too (the dog snoozes on his feet).

this may also be my hobby, but without the snoring

motherinferior · 15/05/2016 18:45

I have to say I find the term 'hobby' a bit odd. Was really taken aback recently to find it used for learning an instrument.

Bertrand, my ahem hobby takes me out regularly - I sing in a chamber choir, rather well (as in it's not just footling around once a week and for some reason I feel I need to make that point Confused) and DP does a martial art and also teaches it.

But I would not for instance call the novel I'm writing a 'hobby'.

barbarossa · 15/05/2016 18:52

Hobby ?
Pulling motorbike engines to bits and rebuilding them.
Taking my grandson train-spotting.

LikeDylanInTheMovies · 15/05/2016 19:13

I've always imagined it was potholing.

MrsUnderwood · 15/05/2016 19:29

"Real" Golf is so shit and boring compared to Crazy Golf. Now that is a sport of kings.

My hobby is crochet. It's quiet, cheap, portable, doesn't take up much space and I can pick it up or out it down as required.

silverpenny · 15/05/2016 19:35

barbarossa or do you just drag DGS along for cover? Wink

topcat2014 · 15/05/2016 19:44

Church bell ringing?

(used to do that) Blush