MN have made it clear THIS WAS NOT A TROLL
Umm. MNHQ can't actually do that. No-one can.
All MNHQ can do is confirm if a poster has a 'history' on MN, checking old nicknames against IP address(es) for eg.
They can't actually say that a person is NOT a troll, or (as it is being used in this case) NOT a liar.
Wedding Cheque OP may be a very nice person who made up a story to post on MN. Or she could be a very nice person who is telling the truth - thing is, unless a member of the HQ staff was at the wedding/saw the email/knows the OP or bride - they can't say a story is true.
(Not casting nasturtiums obviously
. I just don't want people being taken in by the next troll - of which there are many - thinking that MNHQ can actually make a difference here)