@HeilandMoo
Ya.....the bridesmaid with the ill DD
See, now I'm worried this is a thread about a thread! I'm such a rule follower!!
Yep, it does seem to be going that way!
So. Here's what we say about Trollhunting in our Talk Guidelines -
As we hope you've already found out, the vast majority of Mumsnet discussions are genuinely informative, supportive and friendly (even when we all disagree with each other!) but, from time to time, we are visited by trolls, for whom friendly supportive chat is definitely not on the agenda.
If you suspect someone of being a troll, please don't trollhunt (accuse them publicly on the discussion thread). If you're wrong, you could cause untold hurt; if you're right, you'll merely be giving them the kind of attention they're after. Instead, report your suspicions to us and we'll check them out.
Please bear in mind that we'd rather err on the side of being taken in than of accusing a genuine poster who's in need of support of being a troll. For more on this, do have a read of our separate Policy on Trolls and Troublemakers.
Basically, if you think something sounds dodgy, report it to us so we can check things out behind the scenes. Sometimes it takes us a wee while to get to the bottom of things, but we always get there in the end.
Hope that's all clear. 