I've just been away for a week and had considered cat sitters - however a very dear friend said she'd do it instead and I readily agreed (would much rather have someone I know coming in)
I said I'd give her the cash the sitter would have charged and she told me not to be so daft ... but when I returned I found she'd had an incident I know she'll need extra money for. So I gave her a nice bunch of flowers and discreetly left the money in an envelope, which she accepted reluctantly
I know it sounds silly but now I'm worried ... I'm lucky to be able to afford it and I know it will have been needed despite her protests, but I wouldn't offend her for the world. We help each other all the time, but somehow this felt different as it was an actual job and I really didn't want to take advantage
Am I being ridiculous?
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To worry I might have offended my lovely friend?
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Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/05/2016 11:23
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