About 4 weeks ago I traveled and met a group of young German men (3). I had also met a group of English people (about 12 in total) and people from Belgium (also 3).
After a few nights when the whole group were a lot more comfortable, and after a few drinks, the issue of dating came up. I was with my partner. Anyway we were talking about cultural differences according to countries, then the issue of race came up.
One person asked about dating outside of race, and another piped up and pointed to who his friend and said he looooves black women whilst proceeding to point to his butt! He then started singing some rubbish song about having a big ass - I cant remember what it was.
The whole group, with the exception of me, found it hilarious!!!!
Personally I thought it was a crap joke and secondly, regardless of my job, my education, my status, my passport, the fact I was on a pretty expensive holiday, or whatever else, my identity had just been reduced to my ass!
Of which I might say, is lacking!
One reminder that before I am a person, or a woman even, I am a black woman! There are many times in my life when it has suited me to know that and there are not many (if any) black women that will not tell you that is the case!