Btw ...
One of the things I learned from rehab/recovery is that each person's suffering is as bad as it is to them. Pretty similar to the way someone who's never had to do an work with their hands will get painful blisters from using a tin opener (I knew someone this happened to!) So, yes, Tass's 11/10 pain may well be an 11 to her, and her unwise tattoos do represent her identity. I can feel compassion for that.
It would, however, be helpful if such individuals could at least make the effort to acknowledge the differences between them and other folks, whose lives have forced them to get a whole lot more tolerant of pain and a whole lot less attached to their identities.