Well - facepalm. I realised I was wrong about which of the Gardiners was Mrs Bennet's sibling as soon as I posted, but had lost the will to live because of trying to make my four year old go to sleep when he wanted to play 'Baby Robot'.
It's interesting to think about the matrimonial fates of the three Gardiner siblings, when you think about it - the Gardiners approved-of, sensible, genteel London trade (presumably Mr Gardiner inherited whatever their parents had to leave), Mrs Bennets to Mr B's genteel but small and entailed estate, Mrs Phillips (am I right in thinking they don't seem to have children?) marrying into a Meryton smalltown legal business - do they live over the offices? Their place, despite all the entertaining they do, always sounds cramped...?
There are other instances of not-quite-reported interaction between men only, but only in very minor ways, like the bit in P and P where, after Jane and Bingley are engaged, Bingley goes out shooting with his future FIL and Mr Bennet is pleasantly surprised by his company. We're not told a word that actually passed between them, though. One imagines Bingley turning out to be a good shot and Mr B having a dawning 'Oh, not an idiot!' expression, and them coming back quite good friends.
I believe that bit in Sense and Sensibility where Elinor is at the jewellers with some of her mother's jewels and meets Robert Ferrars and his flashy toothpick is debated - I can't remember the phrase but I think the term 'negotiating for some old jewels of her mother's' is used? - as to whether she is in fact selling them to make ends meet or having old-fashioned settings altered for newer ones, which was quite commonly done.
Harriet Walter is a genius as Fanny Dashwood. Which film adaptation of Emma does she play Mrs Elton in? Way too old, but utterly brilliant, especially the way she trilled 'cara sposo'
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I don't get the Colin Firth as Darcy love at all, either, I must admit. I think he's a bit pudding-faced. I was always impressed with the casting of the now hilarious dated-looking 1980 BBC adaptation, with David Rintoul as Darcy and Elizabeth Garvie as Lizzy.