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To think the woman in the cafe today was rude and ignorant

12 replies

Oldsu · 08/04/2016 23:33

Our café like lots of cafes has papers for people to read usually the Sun and the DM but on a Friday they also have the local paper.

Today someone was reading the local paper but I had bought my own and was reading it until my food arrived, I put it down to start my meal and a woman got up from her table and just took my paper without even saying anything to me.

OK I know it didn't have Oldsu written in fire on it so she wouldn't have known it was my own paper, but just to take it without a word I thought was terribly ignorant.

So I went to get it back saying 'excuse me you have taken my paper', to which she replied 'well you were not reading it' So I then had to explain it was my own paper not the cafes, and she just threw it back to me without even a sorry.

If she had actually said excuse me have you finished with the paper or someone polite like that I may very well have said it was my own but she was welcome to borrow it. I had been looking forward to a nice lunch and it really spoilt the moment

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SissySpacekAteMyHamster · 08/04/2016 23:35

Very rude of her. Even if it did belong to the cafe, you would ask before taking it.

WonderingAspie · 08/04/2016 23:37

Wow, very rude. Entitled cow.

NewYearNewToads · 09/04/2016 01:30

YANBU. She was rude. Especially as she just threw it back without apologising.

KittenOfWoe · 09/04/2016 01:31

Bloody hell, very rude! She clearly has no manners, snotty mare.

fatmomma99 · 09/04/2016 01:38

REALLY rude.

But that's quite funny.

giraffesCantReachTheirToes · 09/04/2016 02:06

cow

Paddletonio · 09/04/2016 02:10

Mega rude

AyeAmarok · 09/04/2016 02:10

She was rude.

But Grin

bittapitta · 09/04/2016 02:13

Rude but the reaction of someone embarrassed and not sure how to respond I think! Heat of the moment reaction by someone socially awkward.

dizzytomato · 09/04/2016 03:11

Even if it wasn't your paper, she shouldn't take it off the table that you're so sitting on! She should at least ask. It's like chairs, you can see a chair is not being used at another table but you ALWAYS ask.

GraysAnalogy · 09/04/2016 03:24

What did you say when she threw it back?!!

God it fucks me off when people think they can act like this.

Chottie · 09/04/2016 05:41

How rude!

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