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To refuse sex with DH until he learns hygiene

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Mousedl1 · 30/03/2016 16:32

Ok so I love my DH but his personal hygiene leaves a lot to be desired and it actually turns my stomach. He washes his hear every couple of days but I can't remember the last time he actually bathed or showered! He doesn't smell or anything but his breathe does. He doesn't clean his teeth from one day to the next and can literally go days until I flip as I have a really sensitive sense of smell.
I have tried gentle reminded etc but I have 3 kids and refuse to chase him round everyday but the smell is vulgar! Is it unreasonable to actually tell him I won't kiss or consider sex until this improves

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Zucker · 30/03/2016 18:59

What's with the gross husband threads today? Poo towel man, wanking on the sheets man and now this guy!

Leave them all and form a commune!

PestilentialCat · 30/03/2016 19:00

Yuck. I have never ever known a man to wash his hair over the bath! That's what girls with long hair do Confused

My DH can go all weekend without showering, cleaning his teeth or changing his clothes, including underwear - it's bloody awful. If he's not going out anywhere he doesn't afford me the courtesy of being clean bother.

NewLife4Me · 30/03/2016 19:13

FFs some people are dirty bastards.

OP, tell the kids he's a dirty smelly man and he needs to take care of himself.
Tell them he stinks and ask them what they think you should do.
Tell them in front of him.

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