I'm sure I'm opening myself up to a barrage of negativity (and that's why I don't usually post on these sites) but I wanted to highlight, and hopefully clarify, some points made on this thread (mainly for the original poster who seems to be asking a genuine question).
Before the 18th Century mothers breastfed, that's the top and bottom of it, and no babies didn't regularly die.....well not from breastfeeding anyway! Breastfeeding would have actually continued for much longer and weaning would have actually been later, not earlier.
In todays society between 2% and 4% of women 'physically' are unable to breastfed. A significant percentage of that is due to breast reduction surgery, breast augmentation or radiation therapy. All of these 'things' are relatively new practices so wouldn't have been an issue in 'times past' so the percentage will have been even lower then. If there was a problem for mothers then someone else would have fed the baby, sister, aunt, friend, someone else in the community.....it was 'the norm'.
Yes its true that 'rich people and royalty' would employ wet nurses but this wasn't because they were unable to breastfeed....it was because a shift in society deemed breastfeeding 'common'. Similar to the fact that 100 years ago having a tan was common, it meant you were poor and had to work outside. One reason why wealthy women carried parasols to keep the sun off their skin. Employing a wet nurse was a status symbol not a necessity!
These ideas filtered down and women started feeding their babies all sorts of concoctions, not because they couldn't physically breastfeed but because it was 'out of fashion'.
Also the Industrial Revolution meant that more women had to go out to work and had to look for an alternative to feed their babies. Lots of these women farmed their babies out to peasant women to wet nurse if they didn't have family/friends to do it.
In 1865 a chemist invented the first formula. It was very expensive and many women made up their own variations using evaporated milk, honey, cows milk, sugar etc.
In the early 19th century a third of all artificially fed babies under 1 died. Because of this there was a push for breastfeeding to be promoted to mothers again and an increase in feeding did lead to a reduction in infant mortality rates.
Unfortunately, trends in society and other factors have a huge influence on our decisions, as can be seen over the ages.
Formula companies used to 'work' with medical professionals and those professionals would be the people who would encourage mums to use a specific brand of formula. As more research was carried out and it became apparent that there were health risks to formula GPs etc recommended brands less. Also a decline in birth rates made formula companies look at other ways to make a profit and they started the aggressive advertising of formula milk to the general public, especially in developing countries, with catastrophic effects.
This is a relatively new 'problem' in the scheme of things where formula companies put profit over health and safety and it shouldn't be allowed!
This is NOT meant to be a pro breastfeeding / anti formula post, its just facts!
If women genuinely want to formula and are happy with that choice, or they've tried breastfeeding and decided that it wasn't for them then that is totally their choice. They shouldn't be made to feel guilty about it, not by society and not by themselves. The thing that makes me so sad is that many women seem to say that 'they really wanted to breastfeed but couldn't' ! There lies the problem. I am definitely not blaming mothers for this but I am blaming the 'people' out there that didn't/couldn't/wouldn't give the mothers the correct information and support they needed and perpetuated the 'myth' that these mothers are incapable. Making these mothers feel that they have 'failed' and their bodies have failed them! Unfortunately, its easier for 'people', often Health Professionals, to say 'put them on a bottle'. They've 'solved' the problem and 'everyone' is fine!! It's much more difficult, and time consuming, to support a mum to breastfeed if she's finding it difficult. This can take hours, days, weeks or months of ongoing support.....which many health professionals just don't have. Mums are often told 'they aren't making enough milk, their milk hasn't come in, their baby is too big, their breasts are too small, some babies just don't like breastfeeding' and many more. I've heard them time and time again in life and on sites like these and it's such a shame.
WE should be given the correct support and information and WE should make a choice that suits us and our baby from the 'correct' information we have been given. WE should then be happy with our choice and not be made to feel guilty about it, whatever that choice may be. The problem is feeding is such an emotive subject and whether we are breast or formula feeding WE feel guilty for whatever reason.
Everyone makes different choices for different reasons throughout their life. It doesn't mean that everyone is going to be happy with that choice and agree with it but that shouldn't matter if you feel you are doing what is right for you and anyone else involved.