And how much does your DH help? Does he have specific jobs or do you feel baby/household is your job while on mat-leave?
Does he help during the night?
What about weekends?
How do you allocate personal time?
(I'm not a researcher... I'm planning to show this thread to DH as we'd like to know what other parents do)
Background:
DS is 6months, wakes every 1-2hours at night, sometimes has a 3-hour stretch. Can be difficult to settle after feeds. EBF at night but will take bottle/sippy-cup. Goes down at 6pm up for day by 6am, often awake for few hours in night.
DH has a high-stress job (with 1-hour commute each way) leaves house around 9am back around 7pm.