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to feel offended by this and not want to eat any more fucking apples

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giraffesCantReachTheirToes · 17/03/2016 13:12

I actually don't know if I am being unreasonable. I feel annoyed but might just be sensitive just now.

I have a bad chest infection just now and have pulled muscles in my ribs and diaphragm area from coughing. I also have a chronic lung disease and so chest infections hit me badly. I get quite a few chest infections a year.

I see a respiratory consultant at a hospital that specialises in this. I have a nebuliser machine at home and meds prescribed to administer. Am on a variety of strong and expensive meds, some more commonly associated with things like COPD.

Today someone saw me and asked how I was feeling. I said slowly improving but still struggling. She started going on at me to eat more oranges to get vitamin c. I definitely consume over the RDA of vit c anyway and take lots of supplements anyway.

Then she started saying she had heard apples can fix lung problems and to try that. There has been some research into this and apparently FEV1 in lung function tests was slightly increased when apples were consumed. Am not sure how reliable etc the study was but accept it might be a thing.

Even with that it really wouldn't work. My lung function is good, I can produce a high Peak flow when well. It's my lungs unpredictable and life threatening reactions to things that are the problem.

I really don't like people giving random medical advice. It somehow suggest that 1. I am not eating healthily anyway. 2. That all my consultants are prescribing expensive meds when an apple could help?

I am on extra pain meds and steroids, which always make me a bit emotional and not been getting much sleep cos of coughing and pain. So I am aware I might be being unfair.

OP posts:
TJEckleburg · 18/03/2016 07:16

Please- everyone that is just "trying to be helpful". Listen to those of us on this thread who have serious chronic conditions and just stop it? You have no idea how annoying it is. We live with our conditions. As others have said, telling us that something you heard about on the Internet will cure us is not only usually bullshit, but also an accusation that we are not properly managing our own conditions. And believe me, I spend a hell of a lot of my life managing and researching my own condition.

AvengingGerbil · 18/03/2016 07:18

As quack remedies all contradict each other, you could (if you could be bothered) have some fun with this. Annoying Person: 'sucking on lemons will cure cancer'. Recipient of Advice: 'My woo therapist of choice says that cancer feeds on citrus. And I'm not allowed to suck anything'

Sirzy · 18/03/2016 07:20

The one that annoys me the most is fucking Vicks on the feet. I know a lot of people believe it works but unless Vicks has the magic ability to repair airways it's going to do fuck all for Ds and as its a trigger for asthma probably make him worse!

giraffe hope you are feeling better soon. The chest physio devices really help Ds start moving the mucus, I hope they do the same with you and help!

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 18/03/2016 07:21

People advising homeopathy are also very irksome and I have to sit on hands when I see them on here.

curlywurly4 · 18/03/2016 07:23

Sorry you had a rough night op.

YANBU at all. It's bloody rude and patronising. I hope you feel better soon.

Defnotsupergirl · 18/03/2016 07:42

I know this one OP! Mine is you shouldn't take so many painkillers.....leading on to ......don't you know they're addictive?! No.....really! Well blow me down with a rock.....

I have an inherited neurological disorder similar to but not MS that ain't going to get any better! Counselling for the fact my life aim is quality (pain relief) vs. Quantity (the painkillers will do me damage in the end resulting in shortened life span)

Ruddy doogooders make me want to scream.

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